Snowflakes falling in love

So pure
Each tiny flake
Made to join another
In wondrous cascading snow storm

I wonder why God made us so near
When it thunders the walls vibrate
When your thoughts race
My heart trembles at your distaste

Maybe the ink on the pen has dried
But destiny is changed by one powerful stroke
That when two souls mate
Their history is remade

On the winds of affection
Only one song plays harp on my window
It's when will you show your countenance
That my wintery mind gets her moonlit sky

Joseph was entralled by the King's wife
But all the women of Egypt lost their fingers on his cuteness
Veiled is the beauty of this warden
Only the fingers of this prisoner can unleash

While days go by tormented
And nights are lived through for the sunrise
Let the bond of your molten memories
Be the opener of new horizons

You walk among angels
Your virtue not lesser than Mary
The embrace of a thousand damsels
Will not equal one of your passing touches.

White world fills my outside
Cold and colder the intruder
So let me light your fireplace
For in this heart lies its matches.

I used copy and paste my writings on this blog but now it doesn't allow me to.

I have to get accustomed to writing direct. I'm now inspired to since one of my ardent readers has reminded me how my writings are like chocolate during christmas!



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Canucks is life poem

Canucks is life!

Habeeb Alli

From Guyana

5 years since in Canada


They ask me why I came
From where do I originate?
Do I have any English Skills?
They want to know of my religious base too

I was blessed to be born in Guyana
Studied in India
And travelled the world over and over
Where pains and laughter mingle

Yet I chose cold Canada
Where my families and friends
Made babies and bought houses
To be my children’s residence forever

It’s the freedom to live
The fearlessness to party
The respect of my multiple origins
The sweetness of polite Canadians all about

This love found new
Gives education fragrance
Women color, dignity and saris
Besides constitutional protection from machetes

Opportunities and more chances
Canux is life
With a canoe or a cricket bat
Here is where my bones will dissolve.

another youth dead

It is with deepest sadness and sincere introspection that I seek to key these few lines concerning the recent tragedy on the East Bank road- snuffing the lives of three able young men of our dear soil. While the reports of the three dailies are yet to reconcile the real truth and the courts are still investigating the actual accident, I must say that such incidents have not been rare in Guyana when it comes to road tragedy.

I remember participating many years ago in the opening the the Mahaica-Georgetown highway and in leading the prayers mentioned 'safety from carnage'. Today I have to mourn the victims, the same being my cousins' son- Asheki. All these youths are the tomorrow of our coveted nation and more must be done to educate, protect and remind our road users that each life is as important as theirs and the taking of one life is as taking that of the entire human race.

Asheki, and like the others, are deeply mourned by their loved ones as well as terribly angered by the events. Of course the survivor is also a victim of this traumatic experience and will need therapy. Asheki was another future pilot of Guyana, another budding sports enthusiast and another blossoming citizen heading for a bright 'legit' future. Events like these should have the interfaith community praying and talking, the parliamentarians legislating and the media personnel debating including the rich making pledges for establishing foundations in the name of such educated youths who did not live to see their dreams come through.

I pray for our brothers' Heavenly residence and endurance on behalf of their grieving loved ones. Quran says in 2:156 Those who say, when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah/God We belong, and to Him is our return":- Yours sincerely,

Aunti Ameena happy bday!

Sister, Mom, Girl, Aji,Granny
Younger than Elizabeth Taylor
You cross life rivers
Not only Little Biaboo
But Niagara and Florida Keyes
With burdens like Mount Everest

Yet these shouldersStand tall
With grace, beauty and Faith
You enjoy the goodies
Long after he left you alone
Smiling on every encounter
You sing, cry and pray

In the world of your retired moments
Between countries and kids
When this day arrives
And wishes pour from hearts and flowers
Know it's not the ones not here
And the things that should have
But love and belonging

Is what makes us care
This is one Radika
That planted her trees
In cement and affection
That today their fruits
Are like California strawberries

While you are held in angels wings
Your sixty plus milestone
Is a blessing no gift card can fulfill!
And all your children are very much yours!

One God

Tauheed: the Uniqueness of ONE God in Islam and rejection of Trinity Concept of God.

"Do not worship besides Allah that which can not help or harm you." (Al-Anbiya 21:66)

Muslims believe in the sacred creed of Oneness of God as found in the introductory statement of Islam: Laa Ilaha Illalaah- there is no deity worthy of worship except Allah.

Monotheism is the cornerstone and indispensable foundation of a Muslim’s belief system. To embrace the One true God, commonly called in Arabic Allah, is not only to believe He exists but to love Him, trust in Him, obey Him, know Him et al.

This position is as natural as breathing oxygen instead of carbon dioxide.

Can you imagine three drivers trying to drive the same car down the 401, all three fighting to get the steering, gear and pedal going together? Have you ever seen several fathers claiming fatherhood of a cute baby and DNA testing proving all them as biological fathers? Can this perfectly run world with intricate and complex systems possibly be created and managed by multiple directors, each having the same powers and portfolios?

21:22 If there were, in the heavens and the earth, other gods besides Allah, there would have been confusion in both! but glory to Allah, the Lord of the Throne: (High is He) above what they attribute to Him!

That is so true that atheists when confronted are usually convinced in the existence of a single supreme being who created everything. This makes common sense to them easier than trying to find the logic in polytheism.

In a 1997 survey in the science journal Nature, 40 percent of U.S. scientists said they believe in God—not just a creator, but a God to whom one can pray in expectation of an answer. That is the same percentage of scientists who were believers when the survey was taken 80 years earlier.

On the concept of Trinity the Oneness of Allah opposes the very basis of having to share Godhead with anyone else, no matter how close that being may be to God.

5:17 In blasphemy indeed are those that say that Allah is Christ the son of Mary. Say: "Who then hath the least power against Allah, if His will were to destroy Christ the son of Mary, his mother, and all every - one that is on the earth? To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, and all that is between. He creates what He pleases. For Allah hath power over all things."

This is not only referring to the then prevalent belief that Jesus, on whom be peace, was considered God but even Mary was worshipped and as such this acts against the very notion of worshipping the One Unseen Creator- Allah. The very first commandment is to not take any other gods as deity after all He is a jealous God!

And God spake all these words, saying, I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. Thou shalt have no other gods before me. (Exodus 20:1-3)

The Jews continue to believe in One God or Yahweh and since this was the original teachings of all Prophets it’s not surprising to note that the Torah and Old Testament continue to uphold this belief. Wasn’t Jesus from that same era too? Why would he want that to change that, when he was sent to uphold the laws of Moses?

16:36 For We assuredly sent amongst every People an apostle, (with the Command), "Serve Allah, and eschew Evil": of the People were some whom Allah guided, and some on whom error became inevitably (established). So travel through the earth, and see what was the end of those who denied (the Truth).

When the Quran refutes the claim that some people believe that Jesus is one among three gods it refers to the mindset at the time of revelation. However, the mindset was established in such away that any brand of such a belief where Allah doesn’t remain central to His Oneness in Worship and Belief is refuted in this verse, as again, Tauheed is of paramount importance to the Islamic creed. According to the Catholic Encyclopedia trinity was introduced after the fourth century i.e. in Nicea Council 324AD.

5:73 They do blaspheme who say: Allah is one of three in a Trinity: for there is no god except One Allah. If they desist not from their word (of blasphemy), verily a grievous penalty will befall the blasphemers among them.

Since the Jesus is mortal and has died according to Christians then this becomes problematic that how can god die, let alone validating Trinity, since one is absent from the equation. Or how can the father be loved more than the son, since it’s the son who died for man’s sins? Although we are suppose to love God with all our heart. We as Muslims believe in Jesus as the Prophet of God, son of Virgin Mary, performer of miracles, promised messiah to return on earth but cannot in anyway believe he knows when the Day of Judgment will be. And this is how Mark 13 verse 32 describes him- "No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.”

The Quran corroborates this: 41:47 To Him is referred the Knowledge of the Hour (of Judgment: He knows all): No date-fruit comes out of its sheath, nor does a female conceive (within her womb) nor bring forth the Day that ((Allah)) will propound to them the (question), "Where are the partners (ye attributed to Me?" They will say, "We do assure thee not one of us can bear witness!"

Toronto Muslims on the move!

Looking for more than a mosque? Then the IMO is your next stop.

Finding a place of worship that offers more than prayers on Friday is a challenge for many Muslims in Toronto. Even for others to find a mosque that returns their telephones or welcomes their curious grade 8 can be a challenge. But look no further. The IMO is here.

Entering the eleventh year of existence at 65 Rexdale Ave., Toronto, this once major food-chain head office-turned-Islamic-complex, has evolved to be the beacon in the Muslim community for events and a-must-stopover for politicians, community leaders, the media, school board officials and students, apart from interfaith participants, the poor and needy, among the host of other Canadians seeking some truth about Islam.

The Executive body has functioned over these trying years in a system of Shura or collective management, with the President, Omar Farook, leading the able and capable nine-member team, mainly origins of Guyana. The philosophy that Guyanese Muslims seem to lead the way in mosque building and management in this diverse city of over 350,000 Muslims is they were already doing similar activities in their home country, since there was no Government agency to do this on their behalf.

The IMO is famous for the large Iftar turnouts on the weekends of Ramadan with almost 1200 persons and during the week with about 500 in attendance. These meals are provided by community donors who seek only the blessings of feeding a fasting person.

The youths are the bedrock of any developing community and the madressa at the IMO geared at educating and entertaining the youths, include the regular madressa, sports, and the critically important Scouts Canada program lead by Dawood Zwink, a full time Muslim worker at Scouts. After-school tuition is also ongoing at this huge 50,000 square feet facility. The centre has a truly superb facility to host social functions. Throughout the year conferences, weddings, funerals, meetings and entertainment programs are been hosted here.

Relief is a known phenomenon at the IMO, not only in helping local mosques raise money but providing a forum for international relief organizations and supporting local causes. Sick Kids Hospital received the highest fundraiser of almost $185, 000.00.

The clarion call of Islam is kindness. To make the brick and mortar of any organization worth its value is for it to serve humanity with love and respect. Every third week of the month volunteers gather food items and distribute them to needy Torontonians with a smile of dignity. It’s called Feed the Street. They also run the Ma & Pa Food Bank which serves members of all denominations in the Greater Toronto Area. CIC and RIS are among others; apart from leading MPs, who have garlanded the efforts of the IMO with awards and accolades. Their grand 2008 10th anniversary gala saw much of this, including a message from the Prime Minster of Canada, the Hon. Stephen Harper.

Respect and service are the hallmarks of a successful community and the delicious monthly brunch caters for members of the community including the seniors, where volunteers serve them with much love and regard.

As Omar Farouk puts it: “Among the challenges we face is the constant need to provide professional and appropriate programs, while we continue to envisage a more holistic vision where the IMO remains central in the building block of Torontonians and their diverse communities”

Orphan Walk organized to help Gazan’orphans.


How many times you haven’t seen that Terry Fox walk and wondered how he did it? And you even promise next time round you will jump into your walking attire, grab some cold ones and enroll in the great walk. But it hardly ever happens.

For the second year North America Muslim Foundation organized an orphan walk for 6 km in Scarborough on a nice Saturday morning. May 15th saw almost fifty participants making the most of the sidewalks as Police escorts volunteered to keep the pedestrians safe and sound. Almost two thousand six hundred dollars were raised for these suffering children in Gaza. At the NAMF building BBQ and fun things were organized so everyone could enjoy the day. The walker with the most sponsorship was gifted a cell phone, while on site was the media and some community leaders.

It’s something the youths and elders a like look forward to!


Children of Hope organize second feel good gala event

Every so often we are invited to support diners in order to fundraise for a worthy cause. Rarely, it’s for a feel good event only. Children of Hope brings hope in this department. Created only three years ago, a set of professionals have banded to help orphans in the world. Already on the road to success, they have sponsored children in Africa and Guyana.

Ilyassa Shabazz, second daughter of the legendary Malcolm X, was the main guest at the Gala held in Markham Event place in May 29th in order to support the orphans around the world. Children of Hope is a Canadian Charity that hosted the event. Ilyassa has continued her father's legacy of being a staunch human rights activist in USA, with a Masters in social justice.

The sumptuous dinner and whopping entertainment brought lots to their feet in salute of the work of these volunteers. On site were the famous Babar and Fatima from little Mosque on the Prairie. While Azhar Usman, the famous American Comedian wowed the crowd with his ever refreshing desi jokes.
As their website states: We wish to better the lives of these children by sponsoring orphanages and covering school expenses like text books, stationeries, uniforms, and tuitions fee. We believe in giving these children the same advantages that we in the West often take for granted.
ISSARC hosts retreat in Simcoe country to fight poverty in Ontario
Fighting poverty for some 300,000 odd Ontarians is a daily struggle. What can faith and religion do in this regard?
For most parts churches and mosques, synagogues and temples are already dishing out shelters, hot meals, clothing, job searches, free books and medicines and lots more. But can this fight for the last twenty years be sustained in this patchwork manner? Is there a movement of social justice and political activism that will represent the voices of millions who are attached to faith, feel strong about justice and are on the anti poverty agenda?
Isarc is that interfaith body that embodies this very concern and you would have seen them on the Queens park lawns just before the budget, reminding politicians and the world to do mind the poor.
More of this work is in the pipeline and Muslims are reminded that not only zakat observance is enough but joining others in the fight against poverty is part of Faith as the Prophet said poverty leads to disbelief and disbelief belongs to the Fire.

Toronto Police hosted Hate Crime session with Muslim Leaders.
While hate crimes committed against Muslims is not the number one among the many communities facing this issue yet it’s alarming. The Toronto Police ensured that Muslims and their leadership were well informed of the efforts they are making to stem this disturbing trend and also to engage them to do a better education in the wider community. This was held at the Yonge street head quarters.
Discrimination is the product of ignorance and with more out reach and public relations much of this can be curtailed. Various speakers from both the police and the intelligence crime unit spoke of their efforts and the timely reminder from Mr. Keith Forde, the Deputy Police Chief, reminded us that domestic violence is still a taboo in many immigrant communities and it’s silently taking the lives, dignity and property of our loved ones.
More sessions like these are needed and thanks to the Muslim support group, who wore their distinguishing t-shirts that day and organized a sumptuous dinner, are hoping to bring this informatics to the mosques. Many mosques of varied backgrounds were represented from the GTA.

Muslim Christian Dialogue held in Toronto on Tauheed and Trinity
Muslims are often called to explain the meaning of Allah and Christians are often challenged on the concept of Trinity. How do we have a dialogue on both without ending up at each other’s throat or faith?
North America Muslim Foundation hosted an evening panel with Dr Tony da Costa, known Christian debater and Shaikh Habeeb Alli, known Islamic scholar, to talk about their respective perspectives on Godhead.
The hall at 4140 Finch Ave E Scarborough was packed with mostly Christians and the two panelists were moderated by Mr. Shahryar Shaikh who asked fives questions to Tony while Mr. Neil asked Habeeb five questions on Tauheed.
It turned out that instead of a straight forward explanation session that the polemics of trinity and the intricacies of Tauheed were being challenged.
The attendees also had an opportunity to ask their questions which were answered with a lots of references from both sides.
The panelists met with each other cordially after as well as with the audience and as one Christian Arab lady said: Habeeb the difference is you were not the stereotypical angry Muslim forcing out answers without reason!
Toronto Financial Services Association organized first Islamic Finance seminar
The famous financial complex at 250 Yonge Street is not home to dress up suits of the some financial geeks only but suddenly there is interest to host Islamic finance professionals on a working breakfast in this trendy super high office.
Among the attendees were financial account managers, bankers, accountants, professors of economics, Islamic scholars, Islamic finance operators, etc.
The sessions ran in the morning only and were aimed at brainstorming the need for Islamic finance as an ethical industry niche as well as issues of retail, education, regulation and advocacy.
It was suggested that a follow up session be done and even for TFSA to incorporate Islamic finance as a bona fide arm of the association in order that proper and consistent attention is given to this growing industry. Toronto aught to become the hub of this viable market and not be left out of this stable economic alternative.
Really for Life observed in Scarborough as Muslims battle cancer
Every year they assemble at the famous well constructed Birchmount recreation park to join in solidarity cancer victims. Muslims are no exception to this sickness and they too do the laps and light the candles in hope of cure.
For many years Muslims who survived cancer have organized themselves into a support group, based at Islamic Foundation Toronto, helping patients, supporting families, meeting once a month for education ,etc.
They were quite visible with their friends and families at this yearly night vigil. Food was free and halal, while entertainment was lively. More importantly the concept that sickness doesn’t discriminate was driven home by Imam Habeeb, in his yearly address after Maghreb, taking heed of their traditional halal lifestyle and be part of the wider community drive for healthy living, including organ donation.
The patient when first diagnosed with cancer is like the beginning of the night and later on when he/she becomes disappointed it’s like the twilight and when the treatment begins it’s like the long nights and finally when results become evident it resembles the dawn, with finally health restored as in the bright morning. This is the reason behind the night vigil and lending solidarity to these cancer patients or even families of who those who succumbed to this still-to-be cured illness.
Allahummshafinaa wa aafinaa!

NAMF held second summer Masjid Qurtaba fundraising dinner.
Striking at the heart of the problem Faisal Kutty spoke eloquently on the need of a viable institution in Toronto that supports Islam as a dynamic social, political and economical system rather than having more places of worship only. The famous Canadian lawyer was speaking this Sat at NAMF along with Hon. MP John Mackay and Imam Qayyum Khan.
And isn’t this what North America Muslim Foundation is about? Providing relief internationally and viable programs locally. The Masjid has been a real blessing as hundreds in the neighborhood and afar gets to pray and function Islamically, with the 34,000 sq feet facility housing the Masjid, hall, gym, seniors club, kung fu classes, daily Islamic school and offices.
With the number of educational programs including so far for this year 2009
Fundraising for Gaza, debate on Gaza,
Family Fair for all Ontarians, Panel on Women’s Rights,
Debate on Tauheed and Trinity, Seniors weekly club,
8th Annual Youth Speech competition,
Fundraising for SWAT Valley,
Social services fair, job fair
Masjid and School expansion programs
2nd Annual Orphan Walk and BBQ
Khutba Training workshop
Completion of the Digging Wells project in Baluchistan
Chinese Muslims Exposition
Summer Islamic camp and Day Care services, et al

Entertainment was by the now famous Waleed Hilal who wowed the crowd with his vibrant Arabic Nasheeds and the Patna Kebab House provided dinner.
Youth Tarbiya Conference held for the 8th year in Toronto
So many conferences and events to educate Torontonians, it’s just amazing. Islamic Foundation has been sponsoring this event for years, bringing Islamic Scholars known in South Africa, England and now this time from Trinidad.
The two day event saw the Masjid packed with men, youngsters and sisters. Many workshops and lectures were organized where these dynamic speakers presented on various topics affecting youths. The usual Friday night session Shaikh Habeeb used to do on sexuality would attract some 150 boys and girls. This year that was conducted by the visiting scholars with the attendees expanded to be anyone while the workshop on identity for the youths was divided up into several sessions.
There are also two works after the conference on Islamic finance.
Altogether this is another opportunity to show case the foreign Ulama in Toronto in the attempt to lending help to youths living here and their social issues.
www.youtthtarbiyah.com

Tribute to Br Michael Jackson

The Thriller persona is gone
Shocked by your living arrest
But thrilled the world will be always
By your lovely performances, Mikaeel

In life
Many valleys and peaks
Only Faith and Faith in Him Only
Can bring this mountain to stand

You did show us resilience
Never mind the bizarre acts
The innocent is innocent until proven otherwise
Like a Phoenix you were ready to rise again

Your heart sang while souls prayed
Now that the enemies have lost
Heaven gained a son of angelic ascent
Never to cry again, yet we will forever.

You are not alone
Billie Jean will echo on
Healing the world behind
While the poor pours prayers in oceans of tears everywhere.

poem on wedding bells

Sarah and Wijdan marriage


You met under Divine Eyes
Giggling along life's path
Sara in awe
Wijdan blushing helplessly

Two hearts joined by faith
Nevermind the different colors and praises
Two years in prayers
Today the miracle answer is here

While silent cries
Quenched butterfly stomachs
And unrelenting friends
Scared the wits out of marriage

Yet you've found your dream boy
The halo of your wedding crown
Your man of love today
Wijdan you're so lucky

To share your affection
With the world's beauty
In this unique way
Let no day turn night

Without gratitude and kisses
For only under Divine writ
Can these bells ring now,
And forever more.

wild imaginations

Guavanese Forever


I close my eyes
And you stood there
Eyes drunk in the sea of love
Mine caresses yours an invite

I laid bare my aesthetic soul
And there you spoke
The angel in you broke
You made me your life-long hero

This melody of yours
Where stars, sunshine and your charm
Dance on every thought-floor
This is all I hear without pause

You're everything
Just every act and saying
Is all that a man would pray for
And here you have to me surrender

Grateful, anxious, excited
The words of I love you
Aren't they enough for life
But yet insufficient when without care?

So for you everywhere
And only for you
That you may splash freely
The dreams of desire at life's altar.

SALAMATI FATHER'S DAY!

Fatherhood should be honored by true love.

You may have heard your kid singing that song praising mothers for all their laborious works and granting them unconditional love. Fathers are no where in this song except to love them once after mommy’s thrice. Does this Hadith really contribute to children always saying they love their mothers more? Shouldn’t it be equal?

As hard as it is to make money so too it is for fathers to get love these days, let alone equal. Not that one takes care of the family in order to receive father’s day cards and birthday presents. Not that one is a father so he may use his children to offset his expenses and be secured at retirement.

But honoring a father has become a weird concept, although the Prophet has rightly equated pleasing one’s father as to that of pleasing God. People express that differently but the point is two many squabbles between parents, sometimes violent and even separating, leads to terrible disturbance in the minds of children. Children will honor the parents once they honor themselves.

Fathers also experience child birth pains and are entitled to some loving. But again men seem to come over as macho; that don’t hug and kiss. When a man brought his child in the presence of the Prophet and he kissed him; the man exclaimed he doesn’t! What did the Prophet reply- well if Allah removed love from your heart who am I to enter it? It’s not wrong to hug your boys and especially girls, and say I love you and say how beautiful they are. But sometimes the cultural burden is too much. Some fathers are so into the haram and halal of what the kids are doing that they forget to appreciate them for who they are.

The best sadaqa and charity one can expend on one’s family is time. And believe parents really are soccer moms and hockey dads. Nothing compared to living in the old country way back! You play and come home. Now play is a job. But the time spent will be well rewarded. Boys will see their dad as role models. Going out on family events and Masjid dinners all help cement this relationship. So when time to loving the father there is reason to it, although love it self has no reason. Yusuf, the Prophet, says in the Quran, about his love for his father Yacoob, is such that it grieves him not to be with him. But that did not come just like that. Yacoob cried for forty years, unstoppable tears of missing his beloved young son and lost his eyesight in the painful process. So love goes where love is.

Parenting nowadays takes conferences and guide books. Imagine parenting a child needs a PhD in techniques. But while this maybe new the reality is the fundamentals of parenting remains the same. Closeness, sincerity, time, good listening skills, empathy, hugging and providing are all in the teachings of Islam. Why would a child leave a divorced mother’s home and relish living with a poor father? It’s because somewhere his parenting skills meant love. Not shouting and judging but embracing and understanding. Today many youths do not tell their parents the secrets of their lives until they get into trouble. A father is most times the best friend of his daughter because not that he knows the jokes that makes her smile but more importantly he can assure her he will not get angry at her silly mistakes.

Fathers should love and children should love them like mothers equally.

What's happening in TO?

IDDRF honored Dr Fuad Shahin

Niagara is the home of miraculous beauty- the falls and the scenery. But add more attraction to this Canadian place of fame- Dr Fuad Shahin.

Recently IDRF honored this stalwart of the Muslim community with a lifetime award after he was honored earlier by the Ontario Award for selfless human service. He being a founder of IIDR relief agency and several others and a great doctor and family man this award came timely as others in the community continue to get inspired by the selfless years our great fathers put in to make Canada and Islam a glowing beacon of inspiration throughout the world.

This function was held at the Versailles Banquet Hall in Mississauga and was attended by a huge populace of leaders and politicians. Attendees were entertained by two talented dub poets and served a delicious Pakistani meal after. It was an evening you wouldn’t want to have missed!


Unionville hosts Islam information session

They meet every month over snacks and discuss everything under the sun. But these affluent Unionville residents reach not to discuss new BMWs but to understand spirituality.

After asking around from his patients for an Islamic Scholar, almost since 9/11, Dr Gordon finally found a patient who linked him to a mosque. Finally the arrangement was made and Habeeb Alli was at the event one Monday night presenting Islam and answering questions. It was like a tap burst out of eagerness to learn! Everyone had questions from hijab to Jesus, from violence to who’s an imam.
Learning about diversity will make living with diversity easy and fun!
See www.knowcanadianmuslims.ca to engage others in such a fruitful workshop on Islam.


Mr. Fareed Amin cops Guyana Award prize.

It’s not easy to see him in the mosque as a Minster’s deputy and harder to notice him as the President of the Islamic Institute of Toronto behind the city’s office chair. But yes he is honored by his long outstanding service in the public sector and recognizable he was last Saturday when he copped the Guyana Award for excellence in his field.

Mr. Fareed Amin is a dedicated Muslim leader – getting the IIT from conception into reality while never divorcing his Guyanese roots. Today he has made the Muslim community proud, when upon accepting the award he recognized all the other recipients and committed to follow those ideals that religion and community afford us in the journey of life.

Independence is free from injustice

It's indeed a wonderful feeling to be able to travel this long on the road of Independence. Gratitude and happiness should decorate the corridors of every proud Guyanese inner sense of dignity. While this is no easy feat, the fact that like every any birth anniversary, the joy of accomplishment and the reflection of future plans anoint the soul for pleasures unspeakable. So too in Guyana and the wider Diaspora, in blowing the candles of forty three, the wish that peace and prosperity pursue this land of endless waters at Godspeed is innate.

In all due respect, it's not only that the leaders of independence and the martyrs of the struggle be remembered but every son and daughter be recognized; that in life we are a part of each other and every success is the accumulation of every other's crumbs. Like the pebble thrown at the ponds of fresh black water, the ripples are not only circles visible to the near stander but travels way beyond the tributaries, into light years ahead. So too every race, religion and class must be given their fair share for independence is also, rather is the freedom from the slow death of poverty, racism and systemic discrimination.

My recent visit reminds me that not only progress is visible but the coveted freedom of time and leisure is still indigenous. Recently, Toronto celebrated Guyanese of excellence and the exhilaration reechoed humbly; that inclusive, intelligent and industrious minds originate from the blood-soaked fields of our ancestral heritage alike. This being our contribution to global peacekeeping!

Let this year of colonial freedom be celebrated with the commitment to never allow another man to be unjust to anyone and may the spiritual enrichment of our paths be the beacon of advancement, always.

As Mahatma Gandhi put it, on his way to independence, through Ahimsa; “Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.”

Yours truly,
Habeeb Alli

Muslims of Guyana: From India to the Big North.

Muslims of Guyana: From India to the Big North.
Tracing the Indentured Journeys.

It’s the Indian Arrival Day celebration in Guyana and recollections of the Muslims who came in 1838, jumps on memory lane. You heard about Fullaman and wondered why Muslims in this land of many waters are referred to so, sometimes derogatorily. The fact is the Indians were preceded by Africans, whose main roots were not only of the Fulla tribe but primarily Muslims. In the scheme of things, colonialism infamous divide and rule policy made the new Indian indentures the legit Muslims and the old slaves –kapar- or Non Muslims.
Having lived in India and ask any child of the Mother Land’s indentured laborers you get the distinct feel that no matter what kurta you wear and which qaseeda you sing you are an outsider. However, the continued yearning to know one’s roots never ceases, apart from Bollywood desires!
Among the first batch that arrived on the Whitby were 94 Musalman, enriched with their Mughal culture- Urdu language, Persian cuisine, art of reciting Gazals and the Holy Quran and experts artisans. Learned men among these Asian tigers appeared, even in the second batch, aboard the Hesperus, who maintained their Faith, despite the brutal policies of the Gora- white slave masters.
Interestingly, I was fortunate in my three years of roots-searching-escapades in the 80’s, during my student days, to travel in some of the areas our ancestors originated from- Lucknow, Ghazipur, Allahabad, Agra, Gorakpur, Murshidabad, Azamgarh, Mirzapur, Shahabad, Sultanpur, Faizabad, Patna and Alighar. As I started speaking Urdu, one gentleman actually commented that my accent smells of a Ghaziabad background! One friend from Guyana was lucky to have correspondence with his returned great grandfather and found them in Azamgarh. I later travelled in Ramadan to their home to break fast with cold sherbet and learn of their Shia heritage. The Two Eids were well celebrated in Guyana as well as Youuman Nabi but the Tazia ceremonies that happened until the late 60’s was evidence that the Muslims that came were from both Sunni and Shia tradition, except that division did not survive.

I must say that the diligence the mosques and madressa provided in educating the growing Muslim masses from since 150 years, have been the key of this community’s establishment. While the conversion to Christianity was no easy feat, with converts gaining the better jobs and educational opportunities, those who remain steadfast to their dharma were better off, eventually, as they too did business, went to school and travelled but with self dignity and “coolie” pride.

The first mosque stands at Vergenogen as an emblem that the Muslims built their wooden structure for prayer and while their is a monument representing that history on the West Coast of Demerara, the fulfillment of the rebuilt mosque is still to be done. As a matter of fact the next early mosque at 78 Corentyne, still stands; renovated and active, another symbol that early Muslims were accustomed to being community oriented as they had already lived that experience as a Minority in India during the British Raj.
Recently a famous gentleman passed away in Pakistan whose domicile was Toronto for many years. Many heard the name Queenstown Masjid in his eulogy only because his wife’s grandfather is buried in the capital’s landmark mosque- he being an Afgan Pathan who along with others built that early structure.
It was a British sailor that remarked upon seeing the first mosque facing West that the Kabba in Arabia is positioned East from Guyana, moreso Northern, and not West as the case in India.
Muslims joined their counterparts of the African community as speakers of Arabic and while the return to Islam by then was slow and painful, over the years that understanding and solidarity has grown, giving obvious optics that these two communities can naturally co-exist.
With several rebellions marking the sore sojourn of Indian arrival in Guyana and fatal quest for freedom being etched on their altar of pride- the call for same was being reechoed every where and India itself was ablaze in this self determination struggle. Maybe it was the harmony around the fire in the logies, reciting Hanoman Chalisa and Milad Akbar that made the winds of courage raged. Such has been the pride of Guyana- that Hindus and Muslims are seen as Bhai-Bhai until this hour.
According to Raymond Chickrie: Hindustani Muslims in Guyana have had a long history of resistance dating back to the 11th October 1838, when two Muslims – Jummun (Juman) and Pultun escaped the clutches of the gora sahibs (white masters). The bodies of two strange men were discovered shortly afterwards at Mahaica, in the bushes who were believed to be the two “runaway coolies” Jummun and Pultun. We also saw the Rosehall uprising of 1913 where mainly Muslims were at the forefront “battling” imperialism - Moula Bux, Jahangir Khan, Dildar Khan, Chotey Khan, Aladi, and Amirbaksh stood up to the injustices on the plantations.
Others were named in West Coast Demerara and those who joined other leaders in the forefront as workers union activists, etc. Later in politics and parliament and until today in business and all fronts of life those names resound, although at times the names do not necessarily denote Islam.
When you compare today migration to North America by Indians from Guyana, you see the parlance of a better life, however a reality or delusion that maybe. Calcutta in those days stood as the recruiting ports for laborers with gold and land as the prize. That a child may see an abundant opportunity of education and well being, parents leave their comfortable abodes and migrated away from Guyana. There too they have maintained a strong semblance of community and faith, while enjoying the new citizenship of giving and respect of diversity.

Maybe its time that the remittance and the reputation be held for once and the question asked- if we love foreign things so much, how about also accepting some foreign ideas of religion that will make the social life much more rewarding and the spiritual much more alluring – as much as Western Union and US TV does for those living faraway from loved ones.
Indian Arrival Day may present its issues but for once, just for once, to remember that we did not just appear from no where but our ancestors were children of a rich civilization somewhere in Asia that boasts of culture, arts, languages, armies, wealth, histories and values, today the world is so proud of.

moulana sidiq nasir

Panel Discussion held on Women Issues vis a vis Quranic interpretation.

North American Muslim Foundation recently held a panel discussion on the topic of women and their rights within the Islamic Sharia. Have you ever thought that why a woman cannot marry four husbands but a man can? Or what is the answer to the Quran stipulating a woman’s testimony isn’t equal to man? How about the way some Muslim countries treat women and rape? Have you had to drink your morning coffee by the water cooler while choking to answer some these CNN headlines?

Well on the head table last Wednesday night was a scholarly scholar visiting from Trinidad, Moulana Siddiq Nasir, who was schooled in Pakistan’s Aleemiya Institute in the 70’s. The other panelist was Nevin Reda, who is pursuing her Ph D at U of T on theology and the exegesis of Sura Baqara. Habeeb Alli was the moderator and within two hours several topics were discussed around women issues including smart questions from the floor.

This is in a series of evening seminars and discussion the Foundation seeks to do over time in order to bring key issues on the table in civil but yet interesting and intellectual manner. For more of these check out www.namf.ca

In closing Mr. Farouk Khan, the Executive Director remarked that the robust debates between the modern viewpoint and the traditional positions will continue but it’s the opportunity to talk that matters.

CIOG held their 11th Annual dinner

With almost twice the amount of Guyanese out of Guyana out and with a Muslim Diaspora from that only South American English speaking country in GTA around 50,000 you would have heard of the Central Islamic Organization of Guyana. Based in Georgetown, Guyana, with an Islamic education and social amelioration mandate, it has grown over its four decades’ life span into an internationally recognized entity with strong political leverage nationally.

The Canadian Support group has tediously labored over the last 11 years to fundraise on behalf of this NGO for various projects, especially the closest to heart- orphan sponsorship and establishing credible academic and Islamic institutions. Last Saturday the IMO was brimming with over 800 attendees as they sat glued in awe as the visiting professor Moulana Siddiq Nasir spoke eloquently about education and its dire importance in a Muslim’s life. That ended his ten days tour of Toronto, lecturing in various mosques on various topics. The Saturday before a gala dinner was held at the Malton Mosque by his close relatives, Ahmad Khaleel and Sadro Usman, in honor of his stalwart contribution towards Islam and family.

The CIOG dinner was honored by the Consul General of Guyana, Mr. Danny Doobay, who conveyed greetings on behalf of the President of Guyana and reminded the audience that the work of the CIOG is seen as an indispensable source of social security in Guyana.

Shaikh Zahir Bacchus did a sterling job in raising almost 30 K’s for the poor recipients while a number of other organizations were awarded plaques of recognition for their continued support. The food was spicy and hot; after all that’s how you describe Guyanese and their cuisine!


Interview with Islamic Scholar, Siddiq Nasir, resident of Trinidad.

Habeeb Alli, freelance journalist, caught up with Moulana at IMO after the CIOG dinner on Sat April 25th. The following is an interview. Moulana had also appeared on two local West Indian radio shows.

Tell us about your Visit to Canada and has it been successful?
I’m here on the invite of the Support Group in order to deliver the main speech on their annual fundraising dinner and to be earlier so I may lecture in several other places. It was a success not only for the fundraiser but to meet many Muslims and share knowledge with them.

What has your Islamic education journey been like?
I have studied theology and Modern thought including Philosophy and Education at the Aleemiya Institute in Pakistan, leaving Guyana at 18.

Sufism is growing among Canadians. Does your practice of Sufism seen related?
Sufism isn’t some alien part of Islam, However, if there are quacks out there this doesn’t mean the whole of this spiritual part must be rejected. One has to search for the Truth.

You have been involved in various Islamic works, can you say what you think is the need of the hour?

I have been involved in Dawah through education and the need of the hour is education. However, the maximum reach is the challenge and the internet is helpful with this. Majority of the Muslims do not attend mosque and hence to reach them one has to be innovative. Making good use of the mainstream media is also important by addressing current social issues.

How do you perceive the Islamic movement becoming in West?
The ongoing Islamophobia produces a positive impact as more interest is created and people continue to accept Islam in numbers, especially after 9/11. The challenges as in the case of all Prophets provide opportunities for the better. Despite the disunity among groups, certain crisis brings the best out of them to unite and Gaza was a good example of this. Kindness knows no labels. Dialogue within the communities will enhance this.

How do you view interfaith dialogue as its usefulness?
On the common challenge of secularism, all faiths can come together as a single force and answer this call. Coming together is for practical issues not for indefinable concepts like extremism and terrorism. This needs deeper thought.

Being a Guyanese of multi cultural background, do see this as advantageous living in the West as a new immigrant?
People who belong to a certain society are better able to understand and even teach Islam there. However, integration may be problematic when one’s Deen is compromised as faith is paramount. It’s for you to find the happy balance.

Among the programs you have attended and conducted in Toronto which one stood out for you?
The Muslims in Guyana are needy and the dinner was very promising, including the management of time. The panel discussion on women was enlightening at NAMF, However, for such programs to be effective greater detail, communication and planning is needed. Such programs are needed.

With the recent visit of President Obama to the Summit do see this having a positive on Muslim in Trinidad?
I don’t think so but there is hope!

What is your parting advice?
Strive to know more and more of Allah’s guidance individually and collectively. My visit has observed improvement of Islam and I hope it continues.

Earth Day is ours!

Is it that we have inherited the earth from our ancestors or we have borowed it from our grand children? Today marks the International recognition of earth day, where remarkably 170 countries join hands with 200 million humans to make this planet a better world. Yet, the sluggish response of my faith community warrants acknowledgment and a quick wake up call.

Eistein once remarked that should bees seize to exist then the human race will fall off the face of existence within four years. Was he in any way referring to the Quranic truth that bees provide an intricate ecosystem that humans depend on? The food chain includes organisms that we can barely see and bodies larger than mountains. So as believers we must realise that this life on earth is not only to pray and hope for Heaven but to execute our Kahlifa or trusteeship, where we leave mother earth in a better shape for her next dwellers. 2:30 Behold, thy Lord said to the angels: "I will create a trustee on earth." Imagine earth has been referred to as a masjid- the most sacred place of worship- so to take care of it and protect it from destroyers is to be highly regarded and rewarded, isn't it?

So congratulations to those who have initiated small steps or huge projects to make life easier and the world greener. The reward is a perpetual charity- called sadaqa jariya- as the Prophet of Islam did state removing a harmful object from one's path is part of Iman/Faith. Nowadays, that can be spelt out as reducing carbon emissions and avoiding dumping toxic wastes in Third World oceans. As a matter of fact with the rising of ocean acidification, by 2030, we'll need two more earths to take care of homo sapiens! It's time, undoubtiably, to reflect on those teachings of Islam that speaks of fiscal responsibilty, as we cannot spend the earth as if there is no tommorrow and then hope for a bailout when the bill arrives in the next generation.

It's time to also call upon religious institutions and spiritual tourism agencies to do some serious house cleaning by employing energy retrofit, including less water usage, turning off computers and electronic appliances and using recyclables in their regular events. Do you see green domes everywhere, well how about green boxes somewhere?

To qoute Yusuf Islam, once Cat Stevens, I found a religion that blended scientific reason with spiritual reality in a unifying faith far removed from the headlines of violence, destruction and terrorism. So in whatever way we choose to leave a cleaner footprint behind, remember it's not about inheritance, vulnerable to sqaundering but borrowing subjected to perfect return.

marriage is love and sex; so don't rape one from the other!

The hullaballo that has been raised recently on marital rape warrants profound response.
It seems as if the media has found fodder for yet another black on the white cloth of Islam. Worse yet many ignorant adherents have fuelled this rather unculpable attitude towards women with an old fashion idea of sexuality.

The exchange of intimacy between two people is not only out of love and mutual consent but a private and rather divinely inspired event. When force rather than affection, coercion instead of voluntary intent and misunderstanding before accomodation become the rule of any union, then the limbs of such a contract are almost amputated. The next in line is the exit of the soul.

The contention here is- can love can be legislated? How can one force a woman, even if she is a consenting wife, to have conjugal relations every four days, as per media reports, when this feeling isn't conditional to a timetable, is beyond comprehension. Men may more function on numbers but it's a proven fact that women are our angels of emotions and respond with feelings and desires beyond any time frame. She isn't a switch of technology, available to fulfil someone's schedule of lust but herself a diva of beauty, whose satisfaction is equally paramount. Yes, biologically some days are more in the call than others but again to regulate sex to a sense of duty rather than want is simply unnatural. Islam is called the religion of fitra or nature, so thereore I condemn this sort of macho inspired resolution, no mater how politically expedient it may be for some.

Anyone who misqoutes a statement of Islamic text that angels curse a wife that refuses must study the authenticity of such a tradition and more importantly understand the context of its claim. Would this apply in the days where approach is forbidden or during other common reasons of refrain? Therefore, this is as much in her jurisdiction of agreeing as her marriage was. There is no compusion in religion- so says the Quran and similarly when she is uncomfortable there must be understanding- as the Quran again states- stay away from women when they are experiencing discomfort.

The Prophet of Islam would sensitively refrain from intimacy with his wife if she complained of even an eye pain. Of course, foreplay was his key in ensuring satisfaction during intimacy, to the extent the Quran refers to one's spouse as a garden- therefore tilth the soil of love well!

As a matter of fact, He, on whom be peace, condemned those husbands who hurt their wives during the day and then force themselves upon them like animals later. Hurt isn't only physical.

There should never be a disrespectful demand for such a sacred act of highest pleasure. Some cultures find it convenient to call her 'names', hence their attitude exposes their self conceiting pride of sexism. Rather, like magnetism, this ying yang between lovers should be as automatically romantic as the opposing poles are. Again, about this proposed legislation, would she be elligible for divorce in such a rightful refusal, or would she be jailed or stoned for infidelity-worse yet- such as the unjust string of legislations that treat women as chattel in some places? I hope not. So what's the use in the first place to rule publicly, with such immodesty, on an act so private?

It's time this type of domestic violence be ruled unlawful and a surety for women globally be established, that even in the name of marriage- her last vestige of protection- our mothers and daughters are never exploited, regardless.

In the words of Prophet Muhammad, she is a crystal and crystals do not only decorate but must be treated as priceless gems of pride, to be guarded thoroughly, before their inner beauty could be shone for the outer world to enjoy.

So to our sisters in pain, I relish your value not because you are the Eve of every Adam but you complete every man that loves you:- caringly.

Yours truly,

Saintly demise

Saintly demise

Ilm and leadership.

tribute to Imam Hyaderali- the blessed leader


Gone you haven't
Just stepped out in the Beyond
Memories you stuck with us deeply
Like a tattoo all around

Fierce in your beliefs
Endless effort to spread the truth
Sacrifice of life, family and wealth
You made men out of boys and scholars out of nothing

Embracing the diversity of God
You regarded every neighbour Allah's servant
Love flowed from your life like Kaeiteur
And kindness like Hagar's milk

May your legacy be everlasting
Knowledge, love, kindness and leadership
For in this life there is only one gift
To love and be loved after you're long gone!

Islamic Education: A global essential for women’s defense.

Islamic Education: A global essential for women’s defense.
If the media doesn’t run a story of a Muslim woman in hijab, or better yet in netted burqa, lacerated by strings of depression on her forehead, on its headline, it would have just lost a photojournalism award on any piece on Islam. The question is does Islam really hate women and relegates them to the back seat of ignorance and husband’s domination? Aren’t Muslims supposed to be the most educated, since the very basis of Islam is llm, or knowing?
The Power of Dialogue
Khawlah was a Muslim woman whose husband Aws pronounced this statement at a moment of anger: "You are to me as the back of my mother." This was held by pagan Arabs to be a statement of divorce which freed the husband from any conjugal responsibility but did not leave the wife free to leave the husband's home or to marry another man. Having heard these words from her husband, Khawlah was in a miserable situation. She went straight to the Prophet of Islam to plead her case. The Prophet was of the opinion that she should be patient since there seemed to be no way out. Khawla kept arguing with the Prophet in an attempt to save her suspended marriage. Shortly, the Quran intervened; Khawla's plea was accepted. The divine verdict abolished this iniquitous custom. One full chapter (Chapter 58) of the Quran whose title is "Almujadilah" or "The Woman Who Pleads" was named after this incident:
"Allah has heard and accepted the statement of the woman who pleads with you (the Prophet) concerning her husband and carries her complaint to Allah, and Allah hears the arguments between both of you for Allah hears and sees all things...." (Quran 58:1).
This easily supports my ever nagging point that women must be educated in all departments of life including, becoming experts on Islamic faith but with a new angle of interactive academy and critical analysis.
Wives are educators
Aisha the beloved youngest wife of the Holy Prophet was regarded as a jewel of Islam, not because she was simply his only virgin wife or she was the pretty daughter of his best friend Abu Bakr Siddiq, but more importantly she was the one who challenged him intellectually. That being smart, outspoken, childish yet loving was her unique characteristic. She took pride in what she did and she did it equally professional. Her integrity was tested in the episode of Ifq/ slandered by a hypocrite and she passed with flying colors. The Quran talks about her exoneration in glowing accolades. Altogether she is the first woman scholar in Islam and has left this rich legacy among women that no matter what you do and what maybe your circumstances, getting a basic education and learning about your faith is the key to success.

I dislike the dichotomy many offer when it comes to secular job based knowledge and divine revelation- they are both important and sacred as the originator of all wisdom is God Almighty, Allah. Lady Aisha taught the people of Medina, including the boys and answered the men and women their repeated questions, for almost half a century, after the Prophet’s demise. If education and seeking the truths of revelation wasn’t the most meaningful part of her life, while being the Prophets’ favorite, then how could she have served so selflessly for so long? She did not wallow in sorrow at the absence of her most beloved and prized gift. She adored him by keeping his mantle burning with her dedicated service. Many a times when this issue of women learning Islam comes up, the image of black covered females takes over. Learning is a duty separate from any other acts in Islam; they all have their own virtues and one should not hinder the other. Being active like Lady Aisha should be paramount and the world have seen many such savants who have not made the ridicule of the narrow minded stop them from dong their duty.

Q 3:110 You are the best of peoples, evolved for mankind, enjoining what is right, forbidding what is wrong, and believing in Allah.

Humanity comes first

Today our women don’t only have to grapple with issues of daily hygiene and prayers or learning the many ways of worship in Hajj or whilst traveling in the Path of Allah alone but they must be in the know about the more serious social-economic issues of survival and the bombarding political problems of self identity in the media and workplace. Being equipped with the right tools of research and knowing how to handle issues intelligently and wisely makes her stand among the Mother Mary’s of the world and the many Karen Armstrong’s of the West.

You may have noticed how some superstars have become the darlings of the media with their heroic off screen philanthropy? Well this is the humanity that needs to be re-awakened among our people- the hadith says the best of you is she who benefits others.

This is the time when leadership must recognize that 70% of the world are affected by the present economic downturn that’s wringing dry the financial capabilities of those who didn’t even benefit from the credit crunch. Inasmuch, the majority of those feeling the poverty pinch are women and children. Where will they be fed from? Who will supply them drinking water, or save them from HIV or cholera? Will they have a safe place to bow their heads in the night and will their children have the future out of a vicious cycle of ignorance and violence?

Islamic education is meant to not only change the knowledge base of an individual but to bake a character of thoughtfulness and self responsibility. In so doing, many have rid themselves of superstition and custom based lifestyles by studying the deeper meaning of social reform and Islamic theology. Therefore, learning the Quran should never be about exorcising possibly mental health victims for a few dollars but to liberate the mind from mental slavery.

Q 14:1 Book which We have revealed unto you, in order that you may lead mankind out of the depths of darkness into light.

Women should speak up

Instead of relying on a male Imam to defend your rights and to educate against domestic violence, marital rape and endless macho domination, it’s the most powerful en-armament to have an educated sister standing up against these dastardly Un-Islamic practices prevalent in Muslim comminutes across divides. Naturally, the voice of the oppressed is powerful as it sits by the throne of Allah.

Easily a woman would stand in front the undefeatable Umar bin Khatab and question him on his standardization efforts on the maher/dowry- the woman’s inalienable right by divine decree is to accept or refuse whatever bridal price she’s offered. So discussion and dialogue are not alien to Islam but rude attitude and callous behaviors are definitely strange bed fellows to any Faith. So to have women educated on the liberation movement on saving the planet through active greening and faith based environmentalism is an integral nature of women studying the Scriptures in the past. Whatever are the current issues facing globalization today it’s equally our concern and the precedence of its solution is somewhere in our divine text and time-tested tradition. Why did Fatima, the Prophet’s special daughter chose a life of austerity despite being a royal princess and the wife of an able and scholastic Ali bin Talib? It was she knew such a model lifestyle would become the tradition of millions of women, who realize happiness is not rooted in crass shopping but lies in being contented and grateful, and yet still be sassy and sophisticated. Princess Fatima worked with her hands and refused any servants. She is likened to the millions of ladies who work day jobs yet return home to make dinner, help with home work and give company to their husband’s dreams while pursuing studies. They are indeed the servants of Allah but choose to be honorable in their lives not because of anything but simply the Spiritual has strike their core. A woman, the crystals of love and the angels of tenderness, is not a servant of her husband nor children yet alone mother-in-law and father-in-law. She is entitled to her own residence, aides and maintenance plus pocket money! If there is not a critical education of Islam when it comes to women’s issues serious ailments will prevail. Additionally, the main characters of society building, the mothers of our nation, will be paralyzed in executing their duties.

Q 5:67 O Messenger, proclaim the (message) which have sent to you. If you did not then you would not have fulfilled and proclaimed His mission. And Allah will defend you from men (who mean mischief).

Women scientists are real leaders

Isn’t it admirable that recently the world paid tribute to a woman who made her 63 years of adult existence the locus of fighting for women to be educated, to vote, to be treated fairly, to work, to assemble and to receive proper medical treatment in Guyana. She was an American Jewish woman who arrived in colonial Guiana and adopted the Indian culture humbly, while walking from coast to mountain, seeking after justice and equality on others behalf. She is Janet Jagan, sitting besides Mother Theresa and Nelson Mandela on the pedestal of humanity’s self less leaders. Isn’t this what Islam aught to do? It made at least the Prophet and his followers fight against poverty with zakat, against women being treated as chattels with marriage, against girls being buried alive with equalization in dignity and against all forms of gender bias by announcing they are not the Satan that whispered into Adam’s ear. But how will one seek this self dignity and self pride in ones identity when the culture of the triumphant civilization wreaks havoc on your self, your faith, your dress, your ideas, your cuisine and your history? In the traveling museum of Islamic civilization one may be astounded to find these scientists weren’t only bearded men in long flowing robes but so many revered women were pioneers of Science and Islamic thought.

Today the Muslim woman may still be seen oppressed and her issues unsolved but there is light the end of tunnel. See this Gallup's report, Muslim Americans: A National Portrait, which compares the opinions of Muslim Americans with those of the general U.S. population done in USA recently.

The report also reveals that Muslim American women are one of the most highly educated female religious groups in the United States, second only to Jewish American women. In addition, as a group, Muslim Americans have the highest degree of economic gender parity at the high and low ends of the income spectrum.

I would like to paraphrase a quote from Maryam Jameela, the convert American Jewess, who lived in Pakistan for many years and wrote Islam vs the West: That learning about the society where you live makes you appreciate the religion you profess.

Tribute to the Late her Excellency Janet Jagan

Tribute to the Late her Excellency Janet Jagan

The falcon falls

Embraced the land of six races
The hero of struggle
With rich intellect and motherly bravery
Known fondly as blue-eyed bhoujie

She placed the Indian culture
On the altar of her American dream
And graced the downtrodden with hopes
On barely daubed bottom houses

To the misguided
The ideologue argued in their palaces of honor
Even Palestinians and Cubans you did not forget
Now your legacy too will not be forgotten

Not to be mistaken for her political views
Not everyone agrees with a God-ridden philosophy
But the rights of women and the right to speak
The whole world applauds even in holy places

Ambitious forum on domestic violence held in Toronto Isn't this an oxymoron- Muslims and domestic violence? But in answer to the seminar held at Dawah Centre on March 22nd this is no longer a myth to leave in denial but a fact of the Muslim communities. Talking about this reality was Sargeant Ruby Dhutt, who has been on duty in the South Asian community in GTA, for years, dealing with this life threatening yet culturally sensitive issue. She ably explained the procedures and laws in dealing with abused women and men, while showing that the fear of losing dignity and face can lead to worse case scenarios.

AbdulHai Pate, honorary doctorate recipient in Islamic service, candidly outlined the Islamic stand on this tragic development and condemned anyone using religion to beat their wives and illtreat their children. Shabbir Ally, the Mosque President, did a wonderful job in moderating the session, which saw a reasonable turnout of both concerned women and men as well as social workers in the diverse community.Habeeb Alli, the Canadian Council of Imams secretary and executive of JamiatulUama Canada, the two hosts, at the end joined the panelists in a workshop that dealth with live examples. He showed how the Quran doesn't uphold beating of women from oft misquoted verse and how the daily usage of language derides the better halves of men. More of these are definitely needed and too book one contact this newspaper or our website- www.canadiancouncilofimams.com

Islamic School principals invited to unite.

Teaching has always been referred to as the thankless profession and being the Principal of an Islamic school definitely will be worse. However, we cannot, as a growing community, making headlines regularly in Canada, miss the opportunity to say thank you to our tireless leaders in this important service of Islam. Last Saturday some forty odd school heads, males and females, were invited by the North American Muslim foundation to a luncheon in recognition of their wonderful work. It was meant to be a social networking and get to know event. While the busy schedules and far distance of some schools in Ontario doesn't allow this yet the response is this should be happening every month. Dialogue is to understaning what blood is to the body. When we stop talking we stop honoring. This effort should be such that a resource centre is set up, as in the US, where Islamic schools may share in resources and learn from meach other. Coming to each other's help and promoting each other without fearof loosing their flock is key to our survival.

Brampton Islamic Centre held their annual dinner

Tucked into the corner of Mclughlin and Lowry, Brampton, is this corporate looking edifice with a distinct looks of a modern Church. A closer look and entry into this beautiful complex reveals a fully operaing mosque, school, gym, food bank, social service and comfort zone. This is how the muddy mosque of Median was in the Prophetic era- minus the heating and carpets! It was almost a one stop shop for vital services and deep spiritual haven. Brampton Islamic Centre, commonly known as Haji Hayat Suunatul, recently celebrated their fourth anniversary with a sumptuous gala dinner. The lay out in the main hall was simply banquetish and more in an ambience of colorful dressed Muslims and plenty happy chatter. Shabbir Ally, as the guest speaker, spoke eloquently on the role of the family and some of the modern challenges. The mosque is expected to provide ahuge and integral help in maing it work as a success story. Habeeb Alli performed the indomitable task of fundrasing for the new ablution/wudu area and functioning health approved kitchen. The current official Imam hails from Barbados and studied in UK and India. He said that he's very grateful for all the attendees and volunteers and hoped from this dinner many will feel committed to further the cause of this mosque which is to make us better Muslims and Canadians.
See bsia.ca for more.

recent happenings in toronto

Organ donation still a challenge for Muslims


Imagine living without a kidney not because it failed you but you had it donated to suffering Ontarians. Well every three days someone in Ontario dies and could have been saved had they receive an organ donation. Muslims are among the many others who fail to sign their donor cards. Trillium gift of life organization is trying to make a difference in this regards.

Last Tuesday, Feb 17th, many faith leaders attended a special breakfast meeting at Queens Park elegant Victoria room in order to preside over this burning issue. Among the speakers was a Rabbi, an Aboriginal leader from Sudbury, a pastor and an Islamic scholar. The emphasis was resoundingly common: donating to save a person is like doing God’s work and it’s a charity with perpetual rewards.

Habeeb Alli, secretary of the Canadian Council of Imams, prayed for the well being of sufferers and implored upon all to join this sacred mission. More importantly the Council and the JamiatulUlama have been instrumental in preparing a brochure aimed at the Muslim community and their fears of organ donation. That impressive brochure is now in circulation.

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Synagogue hosts panel on Sacredness of the human body.


You’ve seen students escape prayers although they attend Islamic schools. Well have you heard of Jewish private schools? Some students have issues with not being allowed body piercings or tattoos! Sounds familiar? The Mount Sinai Temple in Toronto thought of having not only a Jewish view point on the body and religion but a Christian and Islamic worldview too.

The event was hosted in the synagogue’s prestigious hall and was attended mainly by Grade 8 students and their parents. The female Rabbi Polonsky of the Temple spoke eloquently on how the body is a temple of the soul and must be respected. Sister Audrey of a Toronto church spoke about ensuring this body returns wholesome. Shaikh Habeeb spoke on how the hygiene of the body leads to safety from satanic whispers, which leads to a more holistic view of the body including avoiding cutting, tattooing and piercing. He also said that contemporary scholars have allowed temporary tattoos and earring piercings as beauty is part of Faith.

One of the parents raised the issue of how gender bias has been influenced by religion and there needs to be some correction to this. And most would concur that while modesty and respect is tantamount to girls this does not debar her from enjoying her life let alone seeking the highest ideals of achievement and worldly status.

Interfaith dialogue really is more than Abrahamic niceties- it helps us have a rounded view of everyday issues- if only we can be open.


Golden rule movie portrays Islam positively

How many times haven’t you heard your mother saying do good unto others as you will want them to do to you? Well that is the age old truth known as the golden rule. Nowadays it’s not only written in scrolls but produced in a movie format. The Scarborro Missions, a leading name in Interfaith in Toronto, is behind the scenes.

Originally, a poster was created with thirteen world religions and their sayings on the Golden rule. Islam was represented by the Hadith- none of you truly believes until he loves for himself what he loves for others. As a matter of fact, this Hadith has been quoted by President Obama, recently, in a national breakfast meeting!

The Mission hosts regular retreats for world religion classes. It had in the past students enacting this rule by skit, songs, art, and poetry. This time a movie was produced by the famous Tina Pretrova, who had earlier produced the film on Rumi- the Poet. Acting are students from a school and their teacher- all representing the different faith through varying fine arts. The quotes of some world religions on the golden rule of life- do unto others what you want them to do to you. Love others the way you want to be loved!

Paul McKenna, the original producer of the golden rule poster and who made a feature appearance in the movie, reminds us that there are over 100 statements from people around the world and from time immemorial that we should live life in a way that we would like others to live with us.

For a copy for your viewing contact Tina at http://www.rumi-turningecstatic.com/ or http://www.scarboromissions.ca/


Family fair second year at NAMF

In the mid winter Toronto is screaming for a getaway. And for one day we have it- the second Monday in February has been declared for Ontarians Family day. And what do you do with this holiday? Definitely a well organized family fair is a smart place to be on that day. NAMF has successfully done that at its large premises in Scarborough.

This year saw a huge crowd of happy participants despite the cold weather. There were lots of ethnic foods, bazaar buzzing with sellers and shoppers, kids jumping on the castle and buying cotton candy and lots of entertainment from comedians, nasheed artists and drummers.

One family commented that they had a wonderful time, especially the affordable food prices at the end! Proceeds of this event go towards paying for the Masjid at Finch and Midland. This 34 000 sq feet property also houses a fulltime Islamic school, a hall for multi functions and a gym. The Masjid is always open to the public, with five daily prayers and Jumauh. Isn’t a Masjid more than a place of worship? Shouldn’t it be the hub of the community?


Mufti Habeebullah Khairabdi visits GTA from India.

Toronto is a famous destination for many top people and Islamic scholars are no exception. Many scholars of varying backgrounds arrive here yearly. This time around Mufti Habeebullah of India visited several mosques in GTA, delivering lectures on Islam in Urdu, which was translated into English.

NAMF hosted the venerable Mufti last Thursday Feb 19th for a session specifically on Questions and Answers on any Fiqh topic. Among the many questions asked and answered were on abortion, organ transplantation, praying in a mosque with gaps in-between, Islamic banking models, domestic violence, etc.

As can be seen there is a thirst for knowledge in the community and many more such forums are needed. One attendee was keen in asking a question on hijab and wants to continue this discussion with others. It’s time our local Ulama jump on this call!

The JamiatulUlama of Canada and Canadian Council of Imams co-hosted this program with NAMF. The Council has started a program of a monthly forum in different masajid where different topics are discussed- the last one was held at Islamic Foundation with Lawyer Mendel Green on immigration and Muslims. The next on is at Dawah Centre, Toronto, on March 21ST.


Dinner held at NAMF on Palestine.


The recent crisis in Gaza is not hidden from anyone. Muslims in Toronto galvanized to different events in order to show their humanitarian solidarity towards the suffering Gazans. North American Muslim Foundation held a dinner in their cause, late January and had a full house.

Ayman Tahir, an original Palestinian, now a chaplain in Toronto, spoke about the issue, both from a historical and Islamic textual point of view. Imam Hamid Slimi fundraised that evening towards helping the cause. A Toronto Rabbi and Pastor also attended, expressing their solidarity.

The question has been how the money will reach the victims, knowing there has been a tight siege and security issue around Gaza.

NAMF has been doing relief work for the last 30 odd years and has a reputation of integrity and effectiveness wherever it went. It has now partnered with a UK based organization- Human Appeal Int, which has legal access into the besieged neighborhood. Again all legalities are been explored and complied with, accordingly, to ensure that money donated doesn’t only reach the needy but arrives there legitimately.

The evening ended with a sumptuous West Indian cuisine and entertainment by Kamal, the Muslim rapper from Mississauga.

Additionally, a group of masajid in Toronto came together to fundraise for the same cause at the Woodbine Banquet Hall in Mid February. Dr Munir elKasem raised the funds that evening, while a few politicians attended, among a myriad of 600 attendees. This group has named its conglomerate ACMO- Association of Muslim Originations.

See www.namf.ca for more details.

Slumdog inspires

Dear Editor


Exhilaration exploded Sunday night on the platform of this year's Oscars. How long can you contain the back-burnering of Indian-movie- lovers? Slumdog Millionaire did not merely grab numerous awards alone but like Obama, returned smiles on the faces of billions and tears on millions around the world.

I was intrigued to hear AK Rahman humbly but distinctly included the gift of motherhood in his acceptance speech; the divine nature of her love makes it inevitable to celebrate. Added to this awe was his unabashed mention that gratitude belongs to God: God is great, he said.

In deed this was the handing over of recognition not so much to stars and Bollywood optics, a historical page, but rather to Indian civilization and a world once ruled by neo imperialists, who used even the big screen to trivialize dominated nations.

The movie plot attracts special relation to the poverty stricken around the world; that with all the sacrifice one makes in life, there is a lesson to be leant. Sometimes, that lesson becomes the destiny for you to make it and be successful. Also it reminds us that love has no set time or rules, although the destiny that love follows reassures the millions in the world that faith in love is still alive, regardless of the timing and the discipline that may endure.

What may need noting is the statement of Jamal, the main character, when over struck by the massacre of his Muslim mother, that Allah and Ram has caused this grief. Such a statement may had been said at the irresponsible time of grief but the truth of the matter is no God let alone a true faith ever has at its epicenter hate; rather the basis of all faiths is the Golden rule. President Obama has been commended for stating at a breakfast prayer recently, that in Islam there is a statement of the Prophet, Hadith, which declares none of you are true believers until you love for yourself what you love for others.

When a few are ripped by disaster it doesn't mean that the whole world has; when a few are struck by humanity’s iniquity to another it doesn't mean that God is to be blamed. If religion is to be blamed for violence against people, then how come the vast majority of people of faith are peaceful?

Praying that inspiration continues to be our companion and truth the solace of life, sometimes overtaken by disappointments and that hope lights our candle of faith, patience and love always.

Now try being a millionaire!

Yours truly,

Habeeb Alli

Thoughts on VALENTINE

What amazes me is people who feel they have a franchise over religion quickly leaps on the fatwa bandwagon of condemning anything seemingly Western, regardless if that original history still abides in people's psyche or not. Hajj has had Arab pagan incursions but is quite embraced because Islam restored its purity by modifying it to suit. Why can't that be an example, knowing it's harder to make something allowed and rather maintaining its mubahat than granting it the hot handle of prohibition and hell blazing tiltes. Anyways, I can't contest this cultural lash out as only those who live away from the ghettoes of immigation on the lawns of Western socoieties may be able to avoid tunnel visions.

Where are the thinkers? Yes, Valentine may have origins on whatever Greek myth and Christian reformist doctrines but the question always is: Does Islam allow, pronmote and nurtur Love or not? Yes, this may be a business ploy for globalisation but again the question is can people trade and use and gain from these love exploits? By the way Sunday also has pagan origins and so many other holidays but Muslims still trade on these days, enjoy a day off and accept charities from those businessmen! The World is least concern about the hidden textual debates archaic traditions murmur from their pulpits- they want concrete time tested solutions to their challenges and modern evolving lifestyels.

They want guidance as a Westerner in interacting with a Muslim and a Muslim wants sensible guidance while living in the West. Lashing out will not help. It has never. Sera taught us that the man who loved is a shahid and the girl who disliked her partner was given the right to divorce. Can we start thinking of helping mend hearts and opening avenues of dialogue rather than throwing love in the Fire of harams and bidahs and castigating Islam as the religion of the hateful?!

congratulating awardees

Awarded on grounds of appreciation
Years of toiling on various hearts
Making some smile
While many pray for your life

Garlanded by the oscar of divine success
You humbly included others
A gesture well meant for angels to cry
How did you do it when he's not at your side?

But hope
Lights the candle of faith, patience and giving
Walk brave young heart
And let the world smile from your soulful sacrifice!

eulogy for an outstanding imam

Allow me to express my sincerest condolence to the family and friends of Hajji Hyderali of Logwood, who was recently placed to rest after eighty five years of tireless toil. A son of the soil, his love for his the navel string burial site returned him frequently from his new domicile in North America, and now the same soil has received him with thousands of Guyanese hailing what a brave soul and loving heart we just lost.

This father of many wonderful children was a popular name among Guyanese as he plied his trade of tailoring and textile with many across Guyana. I remember his bringing his morning bag to the bank and I was always greeted with a smile- I know how proud he was for me as a student of his madarsa who went onto higher studies. His dedication to politics was one that revelled in the idea that there is no racism in religion and as a nation we must live as one- so when we walked the streets of Golden Grove, his original homeland, in the early 90's, seeking to resurrect the bombed masjid there- all came out to greet, hug and lend a helping hand. Today the mosque by the seaside sings a happy prayer for a servant who left love as the legacy of his religion; not schism.

As most learnt men, the realities of theological differences do not always sit well and this Imam of imams was not left out of this hotbed. He did not refrain from defending his staunchest beliefs of traditionalism and yet he embraced his comrades on the opposite side with respect. This so true that his sojourn in the diverse Americas seem to entrust him further with acceptance- he was seen in Toronto as the emblem of a charismatic, tolerant leader, whose works continue to benefit far and wide. In New York, he is no different as the many lives he has touched has swell the seas with tears and the oceans with grief. A rest is well deserved not in the bowel of soil but in the deeper abyss of Heavenly bliss.

May the leaders, businessmen, fathers and spiritual enthusiast take a page among his many chronicles- that when it's all over and the dust settles on the haven of any soul- it's the passion that you loved with, even if it was for seemingly less bigger things! One saying of the Prophet that resonates from his personal class is -whosoever threads the path of knowledge God facilitates his way to Paradise.

May his loved ones receive solace and inspiration to continue.

Tribute to two heroes

The recent passing to the great beyond two very endearing elders of the Muslim community in Guyana heralds a bittersweet tribute on their behalf. Ayube Hamid and Shafeeq Khan were leaders, both in the public domain and the religious arena, known equally in the mainstream Guyanese households as darlings of God and humanity. Their passing away evokes a sense of loss- the bitter and the sweet- the satisfaction in knowing they have lived well and are worth every iota of the final rest Heaven promises of such noble souls.

Uncle Ayube, among the many characteristics that many remember and those that I happen to witness, was his passion to treat everyone that came into his interactive world with a sense of belonging and respect. Of course, being a broadcaster and later a tv host, he satisfied this truth and accentuated this exemplary model for a leader when he would put his hands around you and loudly whisper words of advise or simply answer your request. Maybe Obama's phenomenal win, a victory against racial overtures everywhere, at the time of us missing Hajji Hamid, is simply symbolic that this trait will continue to live and be globalised in another- for God works mysteriously.

Shafeek, Imam of Anna Regina, remains an icon of so many young people around the world as he travelled widely spreading the word with a passion and eloquence unmatched. Having been an ardent activist of the Ethnic Relations campaign against violent racialism, he displayed that sense of equananimous regard for all elements of spirituality, while forging his own personal beliefs to the loftiest pinnacles of sainthood- an involuntary award of a wali. The ceasefire this week allowing Gazans to breathe a little easier seems to divinely implies, if you may allow this parlance of sincere altruism, that when one so dedicated to peace and justice moves on and leaves with such an ever present prayer of sincere ceasefire, then his soul is heard before he expires and the manifestation of such a deep-seated wish for a more loving world wakes up, even if in another part of the global family.

I wish them well in the journey to the next world and pray for the wherewithal of endurance to be bestowed no their loved ones. When death arrives it's only because of years of toiling on the altar of righteousness that will allow elegies to be written and prayers to be sounded with such wide sweeping outreaches.

Nothing more, nothing less.

And yes you can!

Ten ways to increase happiness in marriage!

Ten ways to increase happiness in marriage!

The young and excited bride-and-groom-to-be; ecstatic about the upcoming wedding and marriage and the joy that it will bring. Three to six months later, reality has set in and both spouses realize that marriage is no easy task, but one that takes a great deal of effort and patience. The following are tips for both wives and husbands, to help make the task a little less daunting, and to increase the many rewards that are possible in such a marvelous and complex relationship. Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often Both spouses should enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. The marriage itself then becomes an act of worship and one for which both spouses will be rewarded. Allah will be pleased with them and this will be the most critical element in ensuring peace, stability and happiness throughout the marital life. It is also important to realize that when an act of worship is continued over a long period of time, it becomes necessary to renew one's intention often to remain on the correct path and to obtain the most benefit.

Remember that Your Spouse is also Your Brother or Sister in Islam Too often Muslims treat other people outside the home with kindness and sincerity, but then behave in a very different manner when it comes to their own spouses. Muslims should always remember that one's spouse is also another brother or sister in Islam and that the rights and duties that apply to the general brotherhood (sisterhood) of Islam, should also form the basis of the marital relationship. Obviously, a spouse has rights beyond these, but there should be a clear understanding of the rights of brotherhood (sisterhood) and adherence to these principles.

Do Not Hold Unrealistic Expectations Before marriage, people often have unrealistic ideas about their spouse-to-be, expecting perfection in all aspects. This rarely, if ever, plays out in reality and can lead to unnecessary problems and concerns. We should recall that Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, created humans as imperfect beings, which means that many mistakes will be made throughout a lifetime. By turning the table and expecting imperfection, we will be pleasantly surprised and pleased when our spouse is much more than we ever hoped for. This, in turn, will lead to contentment within the marriage.

Emphasize the Best in Your Spouse Since no one is endowed with all of the best qualities, emphasis should be placed on the positive qualities that a spouse possesses. Encouragement, praise, and gratitude should be expressed on a regular basis, which will strengthen these qualities and be beneficial in developing others. An attempt should be made to overlook or ignore negative characteristics, as the Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said, "A believing man should not have any malice against a believing woman. He may dislike one characteristic in her, but may find another in her which is pleasing." (Muslim) Be Your Mate's Best Friend Try to think of what a best friend means and be one to your spouse. This may mean sharing interests, experiences, dreams, failures and upsets. It may involve understanding a spouse's likes and dislikes and attempting to please him or her in any way possible. A best friend is also usually someone that can be confided to trusted, and relied upon. A spouse should be the kind of friend that one would want to keep throughout life.

Spend Quality Time Together It is not enough to share meals, chores and small talk together. Spouses should also find time to focus on strengthening the relationship. Often couples get busy with their own separate tasks and forget about working on one of the most important elements in life. Quality time may be anything from having a quiet, profound conversation to going for a nice long nature walk, to sharing a special hobby or project. Both spouses should enjoy the particular option chosen and distractions should be kept to a minimum.

Express Feelings Often This is probably a very "Western" concept and one that some people may have difficulty fulfilling, but it is important to be open and honest about one's feelings, both positive and negative. The lines of communication should always be open and any concerns should be brought to the attention of the other spouse as soon as they arise. The rationale of this is that what begins as a simple concern may grow into a major problem if it is not addressed quickly and properly. The "silent treatment" has never been the remedy for anything.

Admit to Mistakes and ask for Forgiveness
Just as we ask Allah to forgive us when we make mistakes, we should also do the same with our spouses. The stronger person is the one who can admit when he or she is wrong, request pardon from the other, and work hard to improve his/her aspects that are in need of change. When a person is unwilling to do this, there will be little growth and development in the marriage. Never Bring up Mistakes of the Past It can be very hurting for another person to be reminded of past mistakes. In Islam, it is generally not recommended to dwell on the past. One may remember errors that were made so that they are not repeated, but this should not be done excessively. Certainly, as humans, we are not in the position to judge another person. Advice may be given, but not in a harmful manner.

Surprise Each Other at Times This may entail bringing home a small gift or flowers, preparing a special meal, dressing up and beautifying oneself (this is not only for women), or sending a secret note in a lunchbox. A little imagination will go a long way here. The idea is to spice up the marriage and avoid getting into a dull routine that may negatively affect the marriage. Have a Sense of Humour This particular aspect can go a long way in preventing arguments and brightening the atmosphere of the home. Life is a constant stream of challenges and tests, and to approach it in a light-hearted manner will help to make the journey smoother and more enjoyable. You may also find that your spouse enjoys this characteristic and looks forward to spending time with you because of it.

Quick Tips for Discussions and Disagreements: Begin with the intention to resolve the issue. If both spouses have this intention and plan to consult together, it is more likely that there will be a successful resolution. Remember that it takes two to quarrel. If only one person chooses not to argue, there will be no argument. Generally, the one who is wrong does most of the talking. Both spouses should not be angry at the same time. If one of the spouses becomes upset, it is best if the other tries to remain calm and collected. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. Of course, house fires do not occur very frequently; yelling should occur at about the same rate. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. This is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage and should be avoided as much as possible. This allows hurt feelings and thoughts to linger and generally exacerbates the problem. If one spouse needs to win, let it be your mate. Do not focus on winning yourself; this is the main reason that discussions tend to become heated.

NAMF 8th Annual dinner

Despite the harsh weather and close to EidulAzha the North American Muslim Foundation held its annual gala dinner on Dec 8th 2008 and it was small but successful event.

Having planned it in advance it was not foreseeable how the holidays and weather will play out. However the fundraiser for the new Masjid Qurtaba at 4140 Finch Ave Scarborough coupled by needs of the earthquake victims in Pakistan made the evening dinner a marked success.

The speakers were simply astounding. Dr Lois Wilson of United Church stirred the sugar in the hearts of the varied attendees as she elaborated on bridging the gap among faiths and cultures. She has been a great inspiration at Massey College for bringing faith into the public discourse. The original speaker Perry Pither couldn’t make it.

Dr Ziyad Delic from Ottawa captivated the crowd with his erudite speech on Arafa and the ways of loving one’s partner. He built on this momentum to fundraise, reciting beautiful Islamic sings and verses of the Quran. It was a unique experience.

One outstanding member of the Muslim community was awarded for her stalwart contributions- Dr. Shanaz Dar, wife of the late Dr. Jameel Dar.

Entertainment that cold evening was warmed up with the famous Raptor performer Quincy Mack and the Torontonian nasheed singer Nadir Khan. The cuisine was a smart mixture of Pakistani and West Indian delights.


Canadian Council of Imams held annual dinner as an Eid get together


Members of the public were invited to dinner and presentation at 4140 Finch Ave Scar- Jameel Dar Convention Hall- on December 13th. This is the third annual dinner held by the Imams and this year it coincided with the EidulAzha celebrations.

Dr Mohamed Iqbal Nadvi, vice chair, spoke bravely on the three aspects of the Council, i.e. helping the Imams, reaching out to the governmental agencies and working with the interfaith bodies. He also touched on the Mumbai massacre. The council had condemned this act of violence and attended some interfaith prayers on the same.

Dr (Hon) Abdul Hai Patel, founder of this 18 years old organization, presented some of the achievements of 2008. This included attending a G8 faith leaders’ conference in Japan against poverty, preparing a curriculum to accommodate Muslim students in the school system, preparing chaplains for the armed forces and the prisons and presenting Islam in many interfaith forums. The council has been collaborating with Canadian Council of Muslim theologians on matters of halal and divorces.

The dinner was a sumptuous mix of biryani, thanks to the Qurbani gifts of the Imams’ followers! And entertainment was by the young artistic Kamal IMPACT from Mississauga.

Now tell me how can Imams de deemed scary!


Interfaith Eid dinner


Imagine being invited to a dinner in the name of Eid but the food is not another biryani pot and the attendees are not all desi or brown!

Well luckily we have people who still maintain the diversity of Islam in their works and lives. The Shahid Akhtar family of Mississauga initiated a dinner in the name of EidulAzha and had invited Muslims, Christians and Jews in their lovely home on December 12th 2008.

It was basically to eat and socialize. Well it was more – the food for thought was well relished as we had warm conversations on religion, politics, and cultures plus even what we do to make the society better. That should be the nexus of faith, isn’t?

Entertainment that evening was by the son Kamal and his Sikh friend doing a wave of hip hop and bhangra drumming. Habeeb recited a poem on Abraham’s love- a love that is so accepted that he was not forced to relinquish one for another.

Shahid Akhtar and Barbara Landau are co chairs of the almost two decades old Muslim Jewish Dialogue.

IFFSA Hosts second New Year's gala in Edmonton.

Having a wild time at Christmas and New Years is not what these Muslim professionals had in mind last December 28th in Edmonton. Organised by a youth group, the second new years dinner attracted alomst a hundred singles, mostly professionals. According to chair, Jawad Chaudry, the need is to provide a comfortable halal means of social outing that would facilitate networking.

Being in smaller communities oportunities of meeting a potential spouse is limited. Alisha Aashary helped oraganise this event as part of her social work portfolio at this Islamic Service centre. Brighly dressed to impress, these smart and successful Muslims were treated to a passionate yet informative and well interactive session on relationships by Shaikh Habeeb Alli of Toronto. On site was also a RCMP officer who is working with the Mulsim youths of Edmonton.They too have their issues- so Toronto it's time to help!

Shaikh Bin Bayya deals with Minority fiqh in Toronto

Sitting on the table were Sh Hamza Yusuf, Abdalla bin Bayya, and Abdulla Idris. That was not just for a nice pose at the Royal York last Saturday Jan 3rd. In attendance were both scholars and leaders of the comunity, males and females. The topic was Muslim minotrities and how to deal with issues of Sharia in their contrained settings. Sh Hamza translated while bin Bayya, a notable scholar from Mauritiania explained and answered. His main thesis is the Sharia has rules and those rule accomodate people of all circumstances. Among some instruments that may be employed to guide Muslim minorities is necessities overide prohibition and easing the difficulty oversteps the actual ruling.

Many questions were answered from the floor including calendar usage for Ramadan, Islamic finance and its validity as well as facilitating Muslims in summer during Ramadan in the cold North. The founder of a global network of scholars also emphasised that following law of the land is paramount and only in private laws one can exercise lobbying power to find accomodation of one's tenets reasonably. More sessions like these are definitely needed and it doesn't have be only when a notable scholar visits Toronto