Respected Muslim
Assalam U Alaikum
Ramadan Greetings!
The guest has arrived. Long awaited; filed with vigor, she has piled us with divine goodies.
We are indeed grateful for this wonderful opportunity, presented to us yearly, without elaborate travel arrangements. Should her profound value to offer change be overlooked? Should her tax free and timely returns be dismissed lightly?
Ramadan has never been a burdensome season for the Early Muslims, despite the paucity of funds, lack of resources and the regular devastations. Therefore for us in this century of progress and abundance, this guest must not be allowed to come and go without fanfare. Let steep materialism not make us oblivious of Allah’s special gifts. We complain too much and thank way less for our countless gifts. An average Canadian has 200 extra unnecessary item stored somewhere, that they can easily convert someone’s misery into bliss. The wastage of food is epidemic. The indifference towards the needy, especially at home and grossly abroad, has become second nature. This should be the sin we’re praying forgiveness for every chance we get this year.
Ramadan makes us realize that change begins with us. We must be that machine to turn the wheels of lethargy and make the power of Iman work miracles. Allah says it’s not enough to wish away poverty and fantasize happiness- we must make it our mandate to make the world a better place by practical steps. Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change it themselves (with their own souls). Q13:11
Zakah, Iftar, fasting, Taraweeh, Itkaf, Umra, visiting mosques and relatives, attending fundraisers and listening to different Hafiz and Ulama, all provide this much needed need tool of change in a world that socially contracts itself away from virtue and Godliness.
The Prophet said: He who provides for the breaking of the fast of another person earns the same merit as the one who was observing fast without diminishing in any way the reward of the latter (Tirmidhi).
Let’s recognize what our centre provides for our salvation, not only today but throughout the year. Think of the level of commitment it takes, and even though we may not get it perfect, it’s still better to fail in doing it right than not doing it at all. Your prayers and opinions are most welcome as much as you during the Blessed Month.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Spice up your sex life- it's all halal!
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Need to have more programs on this topic- I have done some of this kind of a workshop - and there is a demand for it- my website on allexperts.com has some of these too. Chemistry between two people happens on different levels and marriage doesn't guarantee all of those always.
Hence the need to connect with each other away from some of the roadblocks of intimacy- kids, non dressing up for each other, lack of travel together, lack of not doing community work or adventurous chores together, endless exposure to others, the syndrome of comparisson, etc. suggested ways of help- a counsellor will also suggest much these and the Sharia covers lots of ground under mubah foreplay:
Seek a getaway
Purchase lingerie's for her- give hints
Have candlelight dinners- soft music in the backgroun- if you're into that
Enjoy sexual conversations and jokes in privacy
Open communication- search where are each others erogenous spots
Look for each other turn-offs and turn-ons
Ensure the sex is spontaneous sometimes
The man must smell good, dress up and foreplay the wife more than just a slam down event!
The wife must seek creative ways of massaging, kama sutra or perfume garden helps in this lots!
Sexual exploration is an open field- I mean a huge open field except maybe anal sex for some Ulama- so never stop surprising each other!
Books and other media exposure helpsor even discussion groups as removing inhibitions is a educational process that needs cooperation from society.
Lots of taboo on sex has to be cleared by the Ulama-endless stuff in peopels minds that parents and others said is haraam or bad but its not!
2:223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.
Tilth represents the preparation of one's garden and in this case the foreplay and even the afterplay and romance that comes with sexual territory. Time and patience are crucial to making sex appealing and creative.
The Prophet hated when men would jump like beasts on their wives and he warned if you donot dress for each other and look attactive then adultery will be your lot.
Looking at each other naked, oral sex and romantic spa moments all fall within the mubah and allowed grounds of preparing the tilth- so never stop oh gardeners of love!
Do you know Aisha, may Allah be pelased with her, bathed with her husband, on whom be peace, in the same bathtub and she would recite love poetry for him and he would for her? Do you know she would run races with him and kiss him each time he leaves home?
Enjoy!
Need to have more programs on this topic- I have done some of this kind of a workshop - and there is a demand for it- my website on allexperts.com has some of these too. Chemistry between two people happens on different levels and marriage doesn't guarantee all of those always.
Hence the need to connect with each other away from some of the roadblocks of intimacy- kids, non dressing up for each other, lack of travel together, lack of not doing community work or adventurous chores together, endless exposure to others, the syndrome of comparisson, etc. suggested ways of help- a counsellor will also suggest much these and the Sharia covers lots of ground under mubah foreplay:
Seek a getaway
Purchase lingerie's for her- give hints
Have candlelight dinners- soft music in the backgroun- if you're into that
Enjoy sexual conversations and jokes in privacy
Open communication- search where are each others erogenous spots
Look for each other turn-offs and turn-ons
Ensure the sex is spontaneous sometimes
The man must smell good, dress up and foreplay the wife more than just a slam down event!
The wife must seek creative ways of massaging, kama sutra or perfume garden helps in this lots!
Sexual exploration is an open field- I mean a huge open field except maybe anal sex for some Ulama- so never stop surprising each other!
Books and other media exposure helpsor even discussion groups as removing inhibitions is a educational process that needs cooperation from society.
Lots of taboo on sex has to be cleared by the Ulama-endless stuff in peopels minds that parents and others said is haraam or bad but its not!
2:223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.
Tilth represents the preparation of one's garden and in this case the foreplay and even the afterplay and romance that comes with sexual territory. Time and patience are crucial to making sex appealing and creative.
The Prophet hated when men would jump like beasts on their wives and he warned if you donot dress for each other and look attactive then adultery will be your lot.
Looking at each other naked, oral sex and romantic spa moments all fall within the mubah and allowed grounds of preparing the tilth- so never stop oh gardeners of love!
Do you know Aisha, may Allah be pelased with her, bathed with her husband, on whom be peace, in the same bathtub and she would recite love poetry for him and he would for her? Do you know she would run races with him and kiss him each time he leaves home?
Enjoy!
Tragic demise of Akbar is al ost to all Guyanese and humanity.
Allow me to share my deepest sympathies to the families and friends of the late Akbar Alli of Logwood. This tragic ending of a young husband and cold blooded ruin of a father of two young souls, resonates a terrible pain that sits undigested in the souls of thousands, who know him and who don't. I am far way from home but can still see that smile on Akbar's face.
Having known him for almost fifteen years, as he moved from Bush Lot to study Islam at Zeeburg, he temporarily stayed in Enmore by his aunt along with his friend. He later married and lived in Logwood. Having run a trucking service for years, transporting sugar workers and recently selling scrap metal, Akbar has always proven to be that ambitious hard working young Guyanese, who will stay and make the best of any halal venture. He's such a loving person that anyone can get help from him and no matter how much you may anger him or be preachy he would respond with a sweet smile of gentlemanness. While he did not build the nearby mosque in Logwood, he definitely contributed immensely to its present form and substance. Akbar you will surely be missed. And his closest friends were not only Indo Guyanese- visit his mosque or his home-service and you'll see.
Snuffing out his life is indeed senseless and animalistic. While the family mourns and many try to awaken from this life-altering shock, we are left with more questions than answers. Yes, as Muslims we say it's his time. We find solace in the fact that death is pre-calculated and everyone has to leave on his appointed time. Yet the heart will not accept easily, in the thick of grievance, the tragic death of a son of Guyana, who has always lived with love and peace, being charitable and managing his business the best way possible. Imagine the terrible sadness his kids will grow with? Of course, we pray they all receive closure soon. What about his lovely wife who stood by his side, in good and bad, being the perfect choice of his love? She witnessed it. The money was taken, so why shoot him? Handing these mindless robbers the money is the right thing to do rather than life, but that too seems not to work.
The irony of this happening at the vicinity of protection and him expiring at the threshold of life-saving adds to the mental turmoil. Will better security of transporting large sums of money be implemented, scrutiny of elements at financial stores and easier access for businessmen to be licensed be looked into? This lost has indeed united the communities, as people of varying religious organisations rally to engage in Akbar's funeral. But will pressure be put, with that united voice, on protesting the further decay of security and respect of life? How many have to die before the excuse of deportees and limited resources will be thrown out? I have to mourn, as much as I have to seek grace when I think of these murderous loose canons. Just as Muhammad forgave the marauding Quraish or Jesus let go of the Pharisees, I'm sure Akbar's place in Heaven will make him let go vengeful hate , that seems to serenade every conversation. However, this does not mean justice and security will have to be compromised and the pains of this grieving family have to be balm with the downpours of oblivion.
The present drama out of Toronto called Sweet Karaila jettisons us into the deeper knowledge of what happens when callous individuals seek quick gratification without respect for anyone - not even family and life. It also reminds us that the myth of racism is as week as Eldorado and its seeking. Hope Guyanese gets to see it when it comes to Carifesta and take heed- that crime has no colours. Yet how much condemnation have we received, how many are working to heal, and who is willing to educate our people that crime doesn't pay.
May the families find patience and the deceased rest in peace. May the police be guided sooner and grace storm our nation. Last year another brother was gunned in Corentyne trying to save his son from robbers. Today he's semi paralysed and the community seems to move on, forgetting these victims are our our own sons of a magnificent contribution. But who cares? To Sister Romeena, Hajji Hyder's grand daughter and Akbar's wife: love is powerful and your life with him was well worth every drop of it. Once there is life there is hope. The Quran says in 5:32 "On that account: We ordained for the Children of Israel that if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people. "
Having known him for almost fifteen years, as he moved from Bush Lot to study Islam at Zeeburg, he temporarily stayed in Enmore by his aunt along with his friend. He later married and lived in Logwood. Having run a trucking service for years, transporting sugar workers and recently selling scrap metal, Akbar has always proven to be that ambitious hard working young Guyanese, who will stay and make the best of any halal venture. He's such a loving person that anyone can get help from him and no matter how much you may anger him or be preachy he would respond with a sweet smile of gentlemanness. While he did not build the nearby mosque in Logwood, he definitely contributed immensely to its present form and substance. Akbar you will surely be missed. And his closest friends were not only Indo Guyanese- visit his mosque or his home-service and you'll see.
Snuffing out his life is indeed senseless and animalistic. While the family mourns and many try to awaken from this life-altering shock, we are left with more questions than answers. Yes, as Muslims we say it's his time. We find solace in the fact that death is pre-calculated and everyone has to leave on his appointed time. Yet the heart will not accept easily, in the thick of grievance, the tragic death of a son of Guyana, who has always lived with love and peace, being charitable and managing his business the best way possible. Imagine the terrible sadness his kids will grow with? Of course, we pray they all receive closure soon. What about his lovely wife who stood by his side, in good and bad, being the perfect choice of his love? She witnessed it. The money was taken, so why shoot him? Handing these mindless robbers the money is the right thing to do rather than life, but that too seems not to work.
The irony of this happening at the vicinity of protection and him expiring at the threshold of life-saving adds to the mental turmoil. Will better security of transporting large sums of money be implemented, scrutiny of elements at financial stores and easier access for businessmen to be licensed be looked into? This lost has indeed united the communities, as people of varying religious organisations rally to engage in Akbar's funeral. But will pressure be put, with that united voice, on protesting the further decay of security and respect of life? How many have to die before the excuse of deportees and limited resources will be thrown out? I have to mourn, as much as I have to seek grace when I think of these murderous loose canons. Just as Muhammad forgave the marauding Quraish or Jesus let go of the Pharisees, I'm sure Akbar's place in Heaven will make him let go vengeful hate , that seems to serenade every conversation. However, this does not mean justice and security will have to be compromised and the pains of this grieving family have to be balm with the downpours of oblivion.
The present drama out of Toronto called Sweet Karaila jettisons us into the deeper knowledge of what happens when callous individuals seek quick gratification without respect for anyone - not even family and life. It also reminds us that the myth of racism is as week as Eldorado and its seeking. Hope Guyanese gets to see it when it comes to Carifesta and take heed- that crime has no colours. Yet how much condemnation have we received, how many are working to heal, and who is willing to educate our people that crime doesn't pay.
May the families find patience and the deceased rest in peace. May the police be guided sooner and grace storm our nation. Last year another brother was gunned in Corentyne trying to save his son from robbers. Today he's semi paralysed and the community seems to move on, forgetting these victims are our our own sons of a magnificent contribution. But who cares? To Sister Romeena, Hajji Hyder's grand daughter and Akbar's wife: love is powerful and your life with him was well worth every drop of it. Once there is life there is hope. The Quran says in 5:32 "On that account: We ordained for the Children of Israel that if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people. "
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Love so powerful
Amazing Grace in the twinning of Firaz and Candy
Good things come to those who wait
And so it is Firaz and Candy’s date
A journey of two hearts
Tickled and giggled, a twin of life-smarts
Love birds of an intriguing nature
The canje pheasant weds the humming bird, so pure
While nightingales serenade gracious guests
From Vancouver flutters lovely canaries in their nests
Off and On
Whether the compatibility
Lower the bar goes the song
And love will climb over quickly
Like your loved ones’ success
Like your Prophet’s love so numerous
Criticize, challenge but do protect
And every sunrise will be like today, so perfect
Candy, the epitome of modesty
Firaz, the pinnacle of care and self dignity
In twinning each other’s quality
Alas, a marriage of longevity.
Oh Allah, Ameen!
Good things come to those who wait
And so it is Firaz and Candy’s date
A journey of two hearts
Tickled and giggled, a twin of life-smarts
Love birds of an intriguing nature
The canje pheasant weds the humming bird, so pure
While nightingales serenade gracious guests
From Vancouver flutters lovely canaries in their nests
Off and On
Whether the compatibility
Lower the bar goes the song
And love will climb over quickly
Like your loved ones’ success
Like your Prophet’s love so numerous
Criticize, challenge but do protect
And every sunrise will be like today, so perfect
Candy, the epitome of modesty
Firaz, the pinnacle of care and self dignity
In twinning each other’s quality
Alas, a marriage of longevity.
Oh Allah, Ameen!
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
News of Muslims Events in Toronto for June 2008
IMO celebrates its 10th anniversary with great pomp and inclusiveness.
After ten years on the ground, the famous Masjid and banquet hall, International Muslim Organization, IMO recently held its anniversary. While some would think this should have been a free program where all can come, the majority seem to agree that it’s time our Masjid gets the rightful honor with a pomp and camaraderie like any of the gala diners organizations put on.
In attendance, among notable others, were great leaders of the community, many donors and friends of IMO from as far as Waterloo and even abroad.
Imam Shibly was around, a former IMO Imam now in Edmonton who emphasized the Dawa to Canadians and Moulana Faiz from UK, who emphasized educating the youths.
Imam H Slimi, present Imam, reminded us of the past and its struggles and the vision forward- youths and their activities.
President Umar Farouk was right when he said some time back: “We take it as a task upon ourselves to establish good relations with both our fellow Muslims and fellow Canadians. Both of our spiritual and administrative leadership are working for more educational and youth programs as well as the Muslim Community Development in all fields and domains. There is a lot to be done to empower the Muslim individuals especially in terms of education, social welfare and spiritual guidance. Our counseling sessions and daily and weekly programs are meant to answer the needs of the community members.”
Habeeb Alli presented a poem on IMO, recalling the fact that it’s the women who are the real backbone of this successful multi-faceted organization. See www.imooftoronto.com
ISARC fights poverty through the Interfaith powers
The power of Faith is often reengaged to that of a hidden spiritual world. How often social justice means the difference your religion can make in reducing poverty or fighting AIDS?
Interfaith Social Assistance Reform Coalition was formed a few years ago to reduce poverty in the province of Ontario. Recently a conference was held in a beautiful resort in the Northern town of Keswick. These two days deliberation was attended by many Christians, Jews, Muslims and Hindus. The organization mandates itself in collaborating as Faith leaders and make a positive, non violent, advocacy towards policy makers since 49 per cent of Canadians claim they are only a pay check or two away from poverty.
The Canadian Council of Imams is a participatory member and while Imam AbdulHai Patel was way on another anti poverty conference in Japan, Imam Habeeb Alli, secretary of the CCI attended. A wonderful presentation on the Golden Rule was presented by Paul McKenna and the continuous advocacy through attending the Deb Mathews public deliberations, media coverage and writing to the political parties.
Muslims are significantly affected by this poverty as they make up the majority of immigrants but it was also noted that many Canadians born here are also suffering and with rising cost of living definitely something has to be done to save us from poverty. Poverty breeds disbelief and heresy as much as causes misery and pity, comments the present Secretary Mr. Brice Palmer. See www.isarc.ca
Healing Presence in the Muslim Faith
Understanding what it takes to heal is not only a doctor’s job. Or for that matter your loving family members’. It takes lots of spiritual care and we are lucky in Canada that that cultural sensitivity is recognized. But Chaplains have it tough. These gentle souls tend to sick Muslims or inmates while they themselves may not be Muslims. They may be able to deal with some general issues but not the more intense religious ones. Muslim Chaplains is therefore need with 1million Muslims in Canada and growing. For now the Ontario Multi Faith Council must be commended for having almost 35 chaplains registered with them and for working with all faiths.
This year’s annual conference discussed healing and how different faiths respond to its needs. The conference was held at the Glendon College in Toronto and presenters emphasized the need to be prayerful, take medications, being patient and work with the spirit of healing at all times. Imam Habeeb Alli spoke of the rahmah or Allah’s mercy as being the source of healing and the patient actually swims in Allah’s ocean of mercy as much as the visitors and doctors must be aware of that presence. Two important points were reiterated- avoid the hallucination of evil Jinns possessing someone and hence not seeking medical attention and be cautious of the after care after being cured as hastiness is from Satan.
Among the many presenters and workshops was an official from the Chaplaincy Ontario and from Correctional Service ready to answer the many questions chaplains and their clients encounter. Of course more Qurans, prayer mats and books are always needed and hence welcome. The Canadian council of Imams is a board member OF OMC.
See www.omc.ca
Imams discuss the delicate question of polygamy in Toronto
As the opinions roared back and forth recently on the issue of one local Imam supporting the issue of polygamous marriages despite its contravention it was thought that the Canadian Council of Imams should discuss this issue. North American Muslim Foundation hosted the forum and entertained the attendees with a sumptuous dinner. Imam Shabbir Ally, TV host, debater and Ph D candidate facilitated the discussions.
While the article written by Shahryar Shaikh evoked many angered responses and the many Imams wanted a forum, the issue surround more than a defense of polygamy as declared in the Quran- the women’s rights in this issue must be seen as Canadians are very much concerned about this, the legality as per the law, the security of the family, the Quranic nuances and its interpretations. Imam AbdulHai being a former Human Rights Commissioner emphasized the need to make sure these families are financially secured and only by registering the marriages will this be possible, Dr Timothy of the York Islamic Studies Department spoke about using the Quran as the defender and not assuming Allah’s thoughts for any revelation and Shahryar Shaikh asked what will become of the extra women in the world.
By and large there is need for more forums, more research and definitely more input from lawyers and other experts. The Jamiatul Ulama made a special effort to attend and almost twenty Imams and Scholars came that beautiful evening, praying at the new Masjid Qurtaba in Scarborough, managed by NAMF.
Relay for life event Muslims play a big role.
Every year they come to light candles and make dua. These are Muslims who may be survivors of cancer, relatives and friends of such survivors who come out to support. But many are grieving the lost of their loved ones to this mysterious killer- cancer.
Millions are raised yearly for research and no doubt much has improved in terms of diagnosis, treatment and care since Terry Fox made cancer an everyday man’s concern.
For many years Nadeem Memon and Majied Ali will meet at the Islamic Foundation and discuss with cancer patients some aspect of their health, being cancer survivors themselves. They have also explored alternative medicine. For the past three years at the vigil held at the Birchmount Recreational Park Muslims would overnight with others, participate in the walk raising money, enjoy great food and concert and of course pray together and gather to listen to a talk on health. This year Moulana Habeeb spoke on Healing in Islam and dedicated his speech to a once striving Muslim activist, Zakiya, who passed away silently this year, as she succumbed to the deadly disease after a long battle.
May Allah grant her and all others a lasting place in Janna, grant cure and healing to the victims and protect us all from such a disease. May Allah grant the patience to the loved ones and guidance to the researchers. Amen. See ww.MuslimCancerSupport.ca
Hijab women fight against their discriminatory dismissal at UPS.
Not often you hear of someone picking up the fight on behalf of Hijabis. Well in Toronto it’s different. Workers Action Centre organized a powerful evening of talks, entertainment and social justice mobilization last week in Innis College, UFT.
Eight Somalian Hijabis were working at UPS, according the WAC newsletter, and they were not made permanent on the job. The reason given was their hijab although they worked at the UPS firm before. In seeking justice Workers Action Centre noted that people should not to be discriminated thanks to their choice of religion and not by gender, since hijab is a gender issue
The email invite for this program was circulated by the Faith of Life Network and thank Allah, Muslims did turn out. Uzma Shakir was master of ceremonies and she had the victim speak a swell as a notable social activist in Toronto. There was music and lots of food. The Jazz belted out by Rose from LAL, a musical group, was phenomenal- a Bengali girl born in Canada doing American blues, crying out to save Muslim women!
Interfaith Dialogue and Fundraising Dinner held fro the first time at NAMF.
Those accustomed to attending dinners will know Interfaith dialogue is not part of the menu. Maybe tongue lashing talks are. Also those attending the many NAMF programs know that while they are well organized, they can’t remember Interfaith added to the string of fundraisers for whatever causes.
This Saturday it was different. Fr. David Warren of the Scarborough Missions, a Catholic Priest fro 30 years, discussed on stage the life of Jesus and his impact on living in diverse Canada. Imam Dr. Munir El Kassem then took his turn and showed Jesus is a prophet who taught respect and like all Prophets he did not teach anything different from Islamic theology. Fr Warren showed that fighting poverty would be one the things Jesus, on whom be peace, would have definitely emphasized if he was to live in Canada. The audience asked questions and interacted respectfully.
Dr Munir elKasem went on to fundraise for the news Masjid Qurtaba which is prime property purchased by North American Muslim Foundation for 3.5 M with 100 Ks already paid, another due very soon and the remainder to be paid in 5 years.
Appeal is on going for this project that includes the relief, Islamic school and gym plus a banquet hall for any functions. The food was just great coming from MF Halal and thanks to many donors and sponsors it was success. Two local comedians, Saad Kayani and Azfar Alli performed to the happy response of the mixed audience.
See www.namf.ca
After ten years on the ground, the famous Masjid and banquet hall, International Muslim Organization, IMO recently held its anniversary. While some would think this should have been a free program where all can come, the majority seem to agree that it’s time our Masjid gets the rightful honor with a pomp and camaraderie like any of the gala diners organizations put on.
In attendance, among notable others, were great leaders of the community, many donors and friends of IMO from as far as Waterloo and even abroad.
Imam Shibly was around, a former IMO Imam now in Edmonton who emphasized the Dawa to Canadians and Moulana Faiz from UK, who emphasized educating the youths.
Imam H Slimi, present Imam, reminded us of the past and its struggles and the vision forward- youths and their activities.
President Umar Farouk was right when he said some time back: “We take it as a task upon ourselves to establish good relations with both our fellow Muslims and fellow Canadians. Both of our spiritual and administrative leadership are working for more educational and youth programs as well as the Muslim Community Development in all fields and domains. There is a lot to be done to empower the Muslim individuals especially in terms of education, social welfare and spiritual guidance. Our counseling sessions and daily and weekly programs are meant to answer the needs of the community members.”
Habeeb Alli presented a poem on IMO, recalling the fact that it’s the women who are the real backbone of this successful multi-faceted organization. See www.imooftoronto.com
ISARC fights poverty through the Interfaith powers
The power of Faith is often reengaged to that of a hidden spiritual world. How often social justice means the difference your religion can make in reducing poverty or fighting AIDS?
Interfaith Social Assistance Reform Coalition was formed a few years ago to reduce poverty in the province of Ontario. Recently a conference was held in a beautiful resort in the Northern town of Keswick. These two days deliberation was attended by many Christians, Jews, Muslims and Hindus. The organization mandates itself in collaborating as Faith leaders and make a positive, non violent, advocacy towards policy makers since 49 per cent of Canadians claim they are only a pay check or two away from poverty.
The Canadian Council of Imams is a participatory member and while Imam AbdulHai Patel was way on another anti poverty conference in Japan, Imam Habeeb Alli, secretary of the CCI attended. A wonderful presentation on the Golden Rule was presented by Paul McKenna and the continuous advocacy through attending the Deb Mathews public deliberations, media coverage and writing to the political parties.
Muslims are significantly affected by this poverty as they make up the majority of immigrants but it was also noted that many Canadians born here are also suffering and with rising cost of living definitely something has to be done to save us from poverty. Poverty breeds disbelief and heresy as much as causes misery and pity, comments the present Secretary Mr. Brice Palmer. See www.isarc.ca
Healing Presence in the Muslim Faith
Understanding what it takes to heal is not only a doctor’s job. Or for that matter your loving family members’. It takes lots of spiritual care and we are lucky in Canada that that cultural sensitivity is recognized. But Chaplains have it tough. These gentle souls tend to sick Muslims or inmates while they themselves may not be Muslims. They may be able to deal with some general issues but not the more intense religious ones. Muslim Chaplains is therefore need with 1million Muslims in Canada and growing. For now the Ontario Multi Faith Council must be commended for having almost 35 chaplains registered with them and for working with all faiths.
This year’s annual conference discussed healing and how different faiths respond to its needs. The conference was held at the Glendon College in Toronto and presenters emphasized the need to be prayerful, take medications, being patient and work with the spirit of healing at all times. Imam Habeeb Alli spoke of the rahmah or Allah’s mercy as being the source of healing and the patient actually swims in Allah’s ocean of mercy as much as the visitors and doctors must be aware of that presence. Two important points were reiterated- avoid the hallucination of evil Jinns possessing someone and hence not seeking medical attention and be cautious of the after care after being cured as hastiness is from Satan.
Among the many presenters and workshops was an official from the Chaplaincy Ontario and from Correctional Service ready to answer the many questions chaplains and their clients encounter. Of course more Qurans, prayer mats and books are always needed and hence welcome. The Canadian council of Imams is a board member OF OMC.
See www.omc.ca
Imams discuss the delicate question of polygamy in Toronto
As the opinions roared back and forth recently on the issue of one local Imam supporting the issue of polygamous marriages despite its contravention it was thought that the Canadian Council of Imams should discuss this issue. North American Muslim Foundation hosted the forum and entertained the attendees with a sumptuous dinner. Imam Shabbir Ally, TV host, debater and Ph D candidate facilitated the discussions.
While the article written by Shahryar Shaikh evoked many angered responses and the many Imams wanted a forum, the issue surround more than a defense of polygamy as declared in the Quran- the women’s rights in this issue must be seen as Canadians are very much concerned about this, the legality as per the law, the security of the family, the Quranic nuances and its interpretations. Imam AbdulHai being a former Human Rights Commissioner emphasized the need to make sure these families are financially secured and only by registering the marriages will this be possible, Dr Timothy of the York Islamic Studies Department spoke about using the Quran as the defender and not assuming Allah’s thoughts for any revelation and Shahryar Shaikh asked what will become of the extra women in the world.
By and large there is need for more forums, more research and definitely more input from lawyers and other experts. The Jamiatul Ulama made a special effort to attend and almost twenty Imams and Scholars came that beautiful evening, praying at the new Masjid Qurtaba in Scarborough, managed by NAMF.
Relay for life event Muslims play a big role.
Every year they come to light candles and make dua. These are Muslims who may be survivors of cancer, relatives and friends of such survivors who come out to support. But many are grieving the lost of their loved ones to this mysterious killer- cancer.
Millions are raised yearly for research and no doubt much has improved in terms of diagnosis, treatment and care since Terry Fox made cancer an everyday man’s concern.
For many years Nadeem Memon and Majied Ali will meet at the Islamic Foundation and discuss with cancer patients some aspect of their health, being cancer survivors themselves. They have also explored alternative medicine. For the past three years at the vigil held at the Birchmount Recreational Park Muslims would overnight with others, participate in the walk raising money, enjoy great food and concert and of course pray together and gather to listen to a talk on health. This year Moulana Habeeb spoke on Healing in Islam and dedicated his speech to a once striving Muslim activist, Zakiya, who passed away silently this year, as she succumbed to the deadly disease after a long battle.
May Allah grant her and all others a lasting place in Janna, grant cure and healing to the victims and protect us all from such a disease. May Allah grant the patience to the loved ones and guidance to the researchers. Amen. See ww.MuslimCancerSupport.ca
Hijab women fight against their discriminatory dismissal at UPS.
Not often you hear of someone picking up the fight on behalf of Hijabis. Well in Toronto it’s different. Workers Action Centre organized a powerful evening of talks, entertainment and social justice mobilization last week in Innis College, UFT.
Eight Somalian Hijabis were working at UPS, according the WAC newsletter, and they were not made permanent on the job. The reason given was their hijab although they worked at the UPS firm before. In seeking justice Workers Action Centre noted that people should not to be discriminated thanks to their choice of religion and not by gender, since hijab is a gender issue
The email invite for this program was circulated by the Faith of Life Network and thank Allah, Muslims did turn out. Uzma Shakir was master of ceremonies and she had the victim speak a swell as a notable social activist in Toronto. There was music and lots of food. The Jazz belted out by Rose from LAL, a musical group, was phenomenal- a Bengali girl born in Canada doing American blues, crying out to save Muslim women!
Interfaith Dialogue and Fundraising Dinner held fro the first time at NAMF.
Those accustomed to attending dinners will know Interfaith dialogue is not part of the menu. Maybe tongue lashing talks are. Also those attending the many NAMF programs know that while they are well organized, they can’t remember Interfaith added to the string of fundraisers for whatever causes.
This Saturday it was different. Fr. David Warren of the Scarborough Missions, a Catholic Priest fro 30 years, discussed on stage the life of Jesus and his impact on living in diverse Canada. Imam Dr. Munir El Kassem then took his turn and showed Jesus is a prophet who taught respect and like all Prophets he did not teach anything different from Islamic theology. Fr Warren showed that fighting poverty would be one the things Jesus, on whom be peace, would have definitely emphasized if he was to live in Canada. The audience asked questions and interacted respectfully.
Dr Munir elKasem went on to fundraise for the news Masjid Qurtaba which is prime property purchased by North American Muslim Foundation for 3.5 M with 100 Ks already paid, another due very soon and the remainder to be paid in 5 years.
Appeal is on going for this project that includes the relief, Islamic school and gym plus a banquet hall for any functions. The food was just great coming from MF Halal and thanks to many donors and sponsors it was success. Two local comedians, Saad Kayani and Azfar Alli performed to the happy response of the mixed audience.
See www.namf.ca
Happy 141st Birthday, Canada!
Born in the North
Amassed from your British father
Lands and peoples gathered
To fly under the Dominion
You continue to be fertile
Millions at this age and more still coming
150 nations migrated for your freedoms
May you be rich and strong far from Olympic rebukes
While fireworks and barbeque riddle your birthday bash
Many still working and some can't find any
Wrapped around my heart ribbons of red and white
Pinned unto my vest my birth land's green and black
Oh Canada
Land of widespread peace
We say Salam to your sons and daughters
Forever you be at ease.
Amassed from your British father
Lands and peoples gathered
To fly under the Dominion
You continue to be fertile
Millions at this age and more still coming
150 nations migrated for your freedoms
May you be rich and strong far from Olympic rebukes
While fireworks and barbeque riddle your birthday bash
Many still working and some can't find any
Wrapped around my heart ribbons of red and white
Pinned unto my vest my birth land's green and black
Oh Canada
Land of widespread peace
We say Salam to your sons and daughters
Forever you be at ease.
Monday, June 16, 2008
IMO Tenth Anniversary poem of congrats
IMO WAY TO GO
IMO-INTERESTING MAGNIFICENT ORGANIZERS
THE TEARS AND SWEAT OF TEN YEARS
SYNONONYMOUS WITH GLOBAL ACTIVE BLISS
SYNONONYMOUS WITH GLOBAL ACTIVE BLISS
MAKES EVERY CENT WORTH A 1000 MASJIDS
WHAT THEY SAID? YOU WOULD NEVER REACH
TEN GUYS AT 1000 EACH
MONEY YOUR WIFE WISHED TO SPEND ON SEARS
MONEY YOUR WIFE WISHED TO SPEND ON SEARS
BUT THANKS TO ALLAH TODAY'S CELEBRATED TEARS
HOW CAN IT NOT BE?
WHEN THE FIRST LADIES OF EVERY ATTENDEE
ROLLED UP THEIR SLEEVES
NEVER MIND THEY CALL US SOCIALESE
OPEN TO ALL, NO ONE TOO SMALL
THEY SAY IT'S SUCH COMPROMISE LEADS TO FALL
BUT ISN’T THIS THE PRIDE OF OUR FAITH, WHERE’S YOUR INSIGHT?
UNLESS YOU DON'T DIG OUR FOOD, RIGHT
SO IMO YOU HAVE LOTS MORE TO DO
FOR NOW SING AND PRAISE, LET THE WORLD KNOW
THIS IS FOR REAL NOT A SHOW
IMO, WAY TO GO!
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